"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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girl gets off really easily

Kenny Powers

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so this girl i hooked up with the other night got off super easy. She was moaning like I was fvcking her when i was just kissing her neck and tits. Then she started dry-humping me pretty aggressively (she didn't want to have sex). Then after about 10 minutes dry humping me while i kissed her kneck and tits she literally came.

She might have been faking it but idk why she would do that. She was like 6 and said she hadnt hooked up with anyone in a while which might explain it. Also now she is being kinda clingy which is not ideal. wtf?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kenny Powers said:
She might have been faking it but idk why she would do that. She was like 6
You just hooked up with a 6 year old? :down:
 

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haha like a 6 out of 10 you fvcktards
 

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That is quite a strange question.

Why? Because it felt good. Girls don't necessarily just *** from sex or fingering or whatever. I've made a girl *** by licking her nipples and other stuff.

But the problem is if you haven't actually had sex and you think she is too clingy now, if you do have sex that will be like 10x worse!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kenny Powers said:
She was like 6
LOL :crackup:

It sounds like you've got your work cut out for you. Some girls just get their rockers off easier than others. So she's a 6/10, she orgasms fast and easy, and she appears to be clingy. Just stop talking to her. Not in the "I've mysteriously distanced myself" way that gets them maddened in the loins. I guess what I'm trying to say is dump da ho from da get go! :cool:
 

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I think my girlfriend right now is very much like the girl you are describing - and I don't think she is faking it.

Don't forget, there are literally billions of people on this planet - some are way more sensitive, easy to get hot, horney, passionate - whatever.

The thing is - some women are HOT in bed, some are NOT. Some are fookin Amish-like and I rather be with myself in bed than with that type of woman.

You need to find what kind of woman TURNS YOU ON. I love the fact my girlfriend (girl? WTF - womanfriend is more like it, I am 40!) is easily turned on and gets hot easily. Has nothing to do with her being a 6, 7, 8, 9, or 100 degrees temperature outside. She just has an above average level of passion and desire for physical intimacy, though she is no (hole). You want a woman who finds you hot and attractive - or else si-yo-nara senorita.

I think a REAL woman - one who is still ultra feminine and non of these feminist inbred career skanks out there who doesn't understand how to be a woman anymore, really should be on more of the easily aroused side of things than not. Do you want to be with a feminine or masculine woman? Easy to see in bed....

Good luck.

With respect,

Exodus
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It doesn't - being clingy doesn't mean BPD. Being clingy is just clingy. Being horny as heck is just horny. Probably combined with a lack of sex lately, and that time of month.

The fact that she came with that means she was really in the moment - and if you can put her there without sex, I'm not particularly surprised she's being clingy.
 

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omega05 said:
what is this garbage? why is bpd always thrown around for everything. "Women gets horney, she's bpd" what sense does that make?
I was about to say the same
 

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i think this chic was genuinely horny. Hell, pat yourself on the back. Don't listen to Cosmopolitan and think there needs to be 13.4 mins of foreplay, 16.3 minutes of oral, and 22.5 mins of sex. Everyone is different. Have some fun and make this chic squirt like Old Faithful!
 

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This is why women can have multiple orgasms, so you give em one with foreplay, slow things down and get their clothes off, then give em a few more!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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