"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girl gave me her home phone number, when to call?

Willard

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I haven't met any girls in person for months, the last one was my ex. I do mostly online dating.

I met a girl on Valentines day, really pretty, mid to late 30's no kids, great career. I talked to her for while when she was with her friends, I went with her when she smoked, we were talking for a while, she asked if I had a business card, I said we can exchange numbers. Her ***** friend came looking for her and said they wanted to continue ladies night with her and her other friend. I get her number and then I'm dancing with other girls the rest of the night, while she was hanging out with her friends.

I just tried to text her, I got back I was texting a land line.

When should I call her? Is it a good sign she gave me her home phone?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Willard

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Cool, thanks I forgot tomorrow is a holiday, I'll call her tomorrow evening.
 
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