"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girl gave me her home phone number, when to call?

Willard

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I haven't met any girls in person for months, the last one was my ex. I do mostly online dating.

I met a girl on Valentines day, really pretty, mid to late 30's no kids, great career. I talked to her for while when she was with her friends, I went with her when she smoked, we were talking for a while, she asked if I had a business card, I said we can exchange numbers. Her ***** friend came looking for her and said they wanted to continue ladies night with her and her other friend. I get her number and then I'm dancing with other girls the rest of the night, while she was hanging out with her friends.

I just tried to text her, I got back I was texting a land line.

When should I call her? Is it a good sign she gave me her home phone?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Willard

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Cool, thanks I forgot tomorrow is a holiday, I'll call her tomorrow evening.
 
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