Girl gave a lot of buying signals...now won't answer her phone

[h_amati]

Met a girl at the gym and went for coffee a week ago, she gave all the right signals and even suggested I took her out again. I held back and didn't take her offer right there. I could tell she was disappointed by this and that when we said goodbye I just took off and told her, see you at the gym.

Naturally I didn't run into her at the gym (she is not much of a gym goer), but she is not answering her phone or texts (tried contacting her today for the first time after last week's date).

Now I'm confused, I thought she was very interested judging from her buying signals.

She is a nice girl, is there anything to be gained if I insist on contacting her?

 

[Purefilth]

Maybe she was busy
Maybe she met someone she likes better
Maybe her dream boy opened up a slot for her
Meybe she got hit by a bus
Maybe her aunt died.

Just leave it another day or two, so little Info and so many possibilities.

Out of curiosity, how many calls/texts did you throw her way today? Since you said but she is not answering her phone or texts I hope you didnt blow her phone up trying to reach her?

 

[Pardner]

try another time and see. maybe she got mad because you didnt accept her invitation. some girls are funny that way

 

[h_amati]

Called once and texted once about 15 minutes later, something like: hey, I didn't see you at the gym during the week. Can this be considered blowing up her phone?

 

[JohnChops]

Called once and texted once about 15 minutes later, something like: hey, I didn't see you at the gym during the week. Can this be considered blowing up her phone?

yes and it seems like your stalking her lo

 

[h_amati]

Turns out she did text back around midnight. She said:
"Hi! I went to the gym on Tuesday and Thursday. How are you?. I didn't see my phone until now, it's so late"

I still have not texted back, I'd like to take her out on a date this weekend.

 

[Purefilth]

Turns out she did text back around midnight. She said:
"Hi! I went to the gym on Tuesday and Thursday. How are you?. I didn't see my phone until now, it's so late"

I still have not texted back, I'd like to take her out on a date this weekend.

Kinda short notice, dont be surprised if she cant make it. Ideally you'll wanna try to make the plans in the earlier days of the week since by thursday, most people already have plans for the weekend already.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Women and their phones are fvckin almost surgically joined.
Unless she's an older chick who's a nurse or some other profession which requires her to be away from her phone, she would've seen your message and call.
All is not lost but be prepared for flakeage.

 

[nismo-4]

Women's buying signals and IOI's are all bullsh*t until we've banged and gone out.

Women know what men see as IOI's and buying signals, so they can choose to display them at will to get attention or something from a man. Hence these types of threads. And I spin more plates in case a woman who gives me buying signals and doesn't answer is an attention wh0re. My verdict.

Case closed.

 

[Kbomb]

Met a girl at the gym and went for coffee a week ago, she gave all the right signals and even suggested I took her out again. I held back and didn't take her offer right there. I could tell she was disappointed by this and that when we said goodbye I just took off and told her, see you at the gym.

Naturally I didn't run into her at the gym (she is not much of a gym goer), but she is not answering her phone or texts (tried contacting her today for the first time after last week's date).

Now I'm confused, I thought she was very interested judging from her buying signals.

She is a nice girl, is there anything to be gained if I insist on contacting her?

You gave her clear signs that you were disinterested by not at least acknowledging a second date possibility. Then followed it up with a resounding "see you at the gym". She thinks you didn't like her and this recent call probably makes her think you just want to bone.

Or she could just be busy.