"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I quit my job a month ago.

There was a real hot babe who was into me. I was one of the only guys there because it was a fashion company. To make a long story short I never got her # or talked to her much just flirted. It's been over a month since I quit.
I was thinking about calling the office and connecting to her and asking her out.
The only problem is that they announce the calls if they are to someone in the company, for instance they would say "julia pick up 7000". So I am
not sure because I can't get her direct #.
Would it be weird in general to call her after I quit and never stepped to her about this when I worked there?
I knew her about 3 months but it was WORK so I didn't try to hook up because we saw each other everyday.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You had your chance to ask her out. What your doing shows no confidence in your part. She'll be thinking, 'why did he wait 3 months to ask me out. Is he that much of a loser that he doesnt have the balls to ask me out "

Now that might be a little harsh, but unless she's had a huge crush on you for a while, I dont think its worth it. Your best bet is to game women right then and there, boom, 3 second rule. It displays confidence, and shows her you go after what you want. An alpha characteristic. You're definitely displaying AFC. Thats not the type of guy she's going to be interested in.
 
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You could always stop by the company again, find her, strike up some conversation, 'catch up' and then get the number. It's a better idea than calling, still a little 'off' to me after a month though.
 
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say, it's her plumber John, he has an emergancy.

her pipes need imediate ruting.:crackup:
 
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Originally posted by Reed247
I quit my job a month ago.

There was a real hot babe who was into me. I was one of the only guys there because it was a fashion company. To make a long story short I never got her # or talked to her much just flirted. It's been over a month since I quit.
I was thinking about calling the office and connecting to her and asking her out.
The only problem is that they announce the calls if they are to someone in the company, for instance they would say "julia pick up 7000". So I am
not sure because I can't get her direct #.
Would it be weird in general to call her after I quit and never stepped to her about this when I worked there?
I knew her about 3 months but it was WORK so I didn't try to hook up because we saw each other everyday.
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Looks like you have two options:

1) Do nothing and get nothing.
2) Call her and see what happens.

What have you got to lose? If she thinks you're a loser for calling her, so what? You're not going to see her ever again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: girl from work I quit but

Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
Looks like you have two options:

1) Do nothing and get nothing.
2) Call her and see what happens.

What have you got to lose? If she thinks you're a loser for calling her, so what? You're not going to see her ever again.
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No guts no glory. If you can't come up with a creative way to make an attemt on her then just give it up.
 
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I was in a similar situation and I went ahead and called the girl (i got her # from the company directory) and it worked out quite well... hahaha, that chick was a freak!(in a good way!)
 
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