"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Meet this girl at the gym 8 weeks ago. I talked to her after a few days of eye contact. She seemed to look at me I lot I noticed. First I got her name then I let her be. The next day I talked to her again. We had a good conversation. Then she said she had a boyfriend !
So the next weeks I just keep it friendly etc.
Now that I’m talking to other females in the gym. She is starting to make a little small talk.
Example : isn’t it hot in here today with a open smile !
Right in front of another female that I am building up a relationship with.
I saw her boyfriend in the gym a few days back. I just carried on as usual with my exercises.
I noticed she was trying to look in my direction a few times to try and get my reaction.

What do you think I should do next ?

P.S I noticed when there both left her shoulders had dropped somewhat.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Attention ho"... I generally don't entertain pvssy i won't get. One mo thing, stop over analyzing body language it can be deceptive, just go for what you want.
 
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Girl called Kath

Asked this girl what she was doing next week.She said she was going home on the Thursday to see her partents for the Holidays.
But straight after that said she will be back on the 2nd Of January.

I'm I still in there with a shot :rockon:
 
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what I would do is exactly what your doing, play it cool. Maybe she isnt happy in her realtionship, so she is now checking you out. My guess would be to wait it out, if she likes you bad enough she will dump that dude and be like well im single again. Also if you try to pick her up now her b/f might want to beat your ass. so man just wait.
 
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