Girl from the gym all over me...

[Korrupt]

Sent a few texts back & forth, but when I said we should grab drinks and tried to schedule something she didn't respond. Another bullsh!tter apparently.

You got it! Don't contact her again unless she contacts you first (which, sorry to say, I doubt she will). I wouldn't be surprised if you never saw her in the gym again, either.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Wait, at least a week. Then when she starts hitting you up, wait another week. Then schedule something at the last minute.

Young man, I hate to say I told you so. But, I told you so. Every once in a while I know what I'm talking about.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Paradox, screw a text message.

You have to be different. A majority of these weeny dudes are texting girls and all that nonsence. You call her up on the phone and show your confidence and get that date.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

This chick acted like an idiot. What did you do?

You tracked her down on facebook and added her as a friend.

She knows she was a retard, you accepted her behavior and you rewarded her for it. She knows she was a dumb $hit, and you are at her knees asking to take her out.

What do you think her view is of you?

You failed. No call or text, or message on facebook could have changed the outcome.

The second you pursued her you started digging your own grave.

 

[Korrupt]

This chick acted like an idiot. What did you do?

You tracked her down on facebook and added her as a friend.

She knows she was a retard, you accepted her behavior and you rewarded her for it. She knows she was a dumb $hit, and you are at her knees asking to take her out.

What do you think her view is of you?

You failed. No call or text, or message on facebook could have changed the outcome.

The second you pursued her you started digging your own grave.

You're preaching passive-aggressiveness. From what I gathered in his story, he waited almost a week before "tracking her down" on Facebook (and apparently it was because he didn't see her in the gym). I doubt she would have gotten in touch with HIM and asked HIM out, so with your logic there was literally no way to get this girl out on a date. You can't chase, but you can't wait either.

Also, girls don't think about all that bullsh*t. I seriously doubt that she sat down and over-analyzed everything (like you just did) and *logically* came to that conclusion.

He didn't do anything wrong. This is just another cvnt who enjoys f*cking around.

Paradox, screw a text message.

You have to be different. A majority of these weeny dudes are texting girls and all that nonsence. You call her up on the phone and show your confidence and get that date.

You show a girl you're different when you get together with her in person. Most girls these days won't even answer phone calls.

 

[zinc4]

No reason to be passive aggressive and play games....you should have set the date up first after she timeline posted you on FB and then got the number....now you just need to call her or send the message setting up date...no BS chatting...quit over thinking things...you know what you...want...her in your bed now go make it happen....if she flakes..then who cares next...but sounds like she has high IL to me...

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Uncooperative females don't answer the phone***

If a girl is feeling you she will pick up.

 

[.Paradox.]

No reason to be passive aggressive and play games....you should have set the date up first after she timeline posted you on FB and then got the number....now you just need to call her or send the message setting up date...no BS chatting...quit over thinking things...you know what you...want...her in your bed now go make it happen....if she flakes..then who cares next...but sounds like she has high IL to me...

I tried. Here are the texts that were exchanged:

ME: Hey *name*, it's *me*. Stay outta trouble this weekend?

HER: Hey there! Bahah no! Went to *blah* last night and got wild. How was your weekend?

ME: Haha I shoulda known! And my weekend was nice and chill. How was *blah*? I've always wanted to go to *concert*.

HER: It was insane! It was my first *blah* concert. By far the best experience I've had besides skydiving.

ME: Seriously?! That's Awesome! I'm gonna have to check it out asap. And are you free Wednesday night? We should grab drinks in *area*.

 

[spiegel549]

Next Her

I tried. Here are the texts that were exchanged:

ME: Hey *name*, it's *me*. Stay outta trouble this weekend?

HER: Hey there! Bahah no! Went to *blah* last night and got wild. How was your weekend?

ME: Haha I shoulda known! And my weekend was nice and chill. How was *blah*? I've always wanted to go to *concert*.

HER: It was insane! It was my first *blah* concert. By far the best experience I've had besides skydiving.

ME: Seriously?! That's Awesome! I'm gonna have to check it out asap. And are you free Wednesday night? We should grab drinks in *area*.

Bro. You sound like an in shape, good looking guy. Why are you wasting your time with trash? This is wayyyyyy to long of a thread for this broad.

She did you a HUGE favor and showed her true colors RIGHT AWAY! LOL! That is a fuking blessing bro. No disrespect but think with your top head not your lower head. This broad has "Crazy azz psycho" written all over her.

I have delt with a lot of drunk girls. Not worth the time. Nothing but a fuking HEADACHE. Drop her. Find someone else.

Also are you from Los Angeles by any chance? If so for real next this broad. LA girls that show there colors like that you better "RUNNN MOTHER FUKER RUNNN!!"

-Spiegel

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I doubt she would have gotten in touch with HIM and asked HIM out, so with your logic there was literally no way to get this girl out on a date. You can't chase, but you can't wait either.

I understand your logic: "nothing ventured, nothing gained" Unfortunately, in this case, what was previously gained got burned up in a ball of flames.

It's not like she was visiting from out of town. They worked out at the same gym and she was friends with his buddy's girlfriend. Like my first post stated, he would have run into her again, eventually. Or, even better, she would have tracked him down, to try to prove herself to him. That was the only way to play this one. You can't chase some dumb crazy chick who knows the only thing she has going for her is her looks. If you do,she will automatically put you beneath her. It's in her DNA to do so.

Also, girls don't think about all that bullsh*t. I seriously doubt that she sat down and over-analyzed everything (like you just did) and *logically* came to that conclusion.

They're not logical, that's for sure. But over-analyzing things? You serious about that one?

You show a girl you're different when you get together with her in person. Most girls these days won't even answer phone calls.

Good advice, so why are you telling him to get her phone number off of facebook?

 

[.Paradox.]

Saw her in the gym today. I walked into the free-weight section and she was somewhere on the side. I noticed her as I looked around the gym and she gave me a cute *coughFAKEcough* smile and wave. I just smiled at her and went on to my workout. The funny part? After my FIRST set (like 1 minute later), I go to get a drink of water at the water fountain and she's totally gone. Seriously? Leaving literally as soon as I arrive/avoiding me? Why? Lmao you guys are right, this girl is seriously f*cked up.

 

[.Paradox.]

Saw her in the gym today. I walked into the free-weight section and she was somewhere on the side. I noticed her as I looked around the gym and she gave me a cute *coughFAKEcough* smile and wave. I just smiled at her and went on to my workout. The funny part? After my FIRST set (like 1 minute later), I go to get a drink of water at the water fountain and she's totally gone. Seriously? Leaving literally as soon as I arrive/avoiding me? Why? Lmao you guys are right, this girl is seriously f*cked up.

Not sure what this girl's deal is... She hit me up today out of no-where...

HER: Hey sorry it's been a busy week! What are you up to today?
ME: Who is this?
HER: *her name*
ME: Oh hey. I'm with familia today. You?
HER: Just wanted to see if you wanted to go wake boarding lol.
ME: Can't today, but thanks for the invite. You gonna be in the gym Monday? Maybe we can get a workout in or something.

No response.