"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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andari

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just ran into a girl that knew back in the day and she was on an internet forum for my local area of DC. SHE said that i looked like a guy she used to be cool with in college. i was like what is your name? and she said------------. i was like ya whats up and all that eventually she gave me her numebr to call her at work. then she gave me her number to call her at home. that was like thursday, i have not called yet. im tyring to figure out what means this? is this a sex thing? could it be? what does she want? this was like 5 years ago man what does she want? she talkin about she was thinking from time to time about how was i done and all that does that mean i wanted to hump you all that time and now i have the chance?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Put your testosterone in check dude...

It MEANS:

Wow, there is someone I remember from my past. I am curious about him. Has he changed? Is he more, than i thought he was then? How coincidental meeting him on here!

Half of it is surprise for her. The other half is curiosity. You need to quit humping her leg!

If you want to hump her as you call it, relax.

I would suggest, setting up a date. She did give you the digits right? Act as if you just want to check her out is all, see if she has changed. Don't get all hardcore on her from the get go tho.. you'll scare the hell out of her, and she will slip away.

Be more cool than that. Don't act desparate for a quick f@ck.

Spend a little phone time. then make sure you follow it up with being in person.. If at any time during this process she gives you excuse ( I have to stay home and brush my goldfishes hair blah blah blah) Then ignore her. At least for about a week. After a week, send her something. Maybe have a floral shop send her a teddy bear or something, but stay away from flowers. Give it a day or two to see if she is going to call. If she doesn't, then call her, but briefly, say, I Just was calling to check if you got _________ I hope you like it. She will say that was very nice of you. All good, but then you just set up the next date. by now she will suspect you are into her.

If she starts acting all lawdy dawdy at any point during this process, just zip it. I mean give her the silent treatment. Be a man of few words.

What i am saying here is find ways to peak her interest and keep her off guard. Be sweet. Then be kinda cold. You are being unpredictable and thats good. Curiosity is whats driving her, not lust to boink you. You have but one chance to sway her your way, and she obviously responds to curiosity so make her even more curious!

It shouldn't take too long, until she has made you sort of a habit. And damn... habits are hard to break aren't they?
 

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man i love this site....................this is what i did..form time to time i would call her and she would call me. we would play phone tag. thne she wanted my email address so she could send me her pics , so i could see what she looks like now. man she was really really nice looking had an ass that wont quit......but i didnt get all sissyfied.i chilled........................one day she was at home while i was at work and were talking briefly on the phone. then i got off the phone...but what she didnt know is that i remember her telling me her favorite radio station. what i did was i had the dj make a special shootout to a special freind form school who i was just thinkin about and i want her to have a nice day..................2 secounds later she emailed me called my job called my cellphone.........telling me how sweet that was.


i play a little sometimes im availabel sometimes not sometimes i talk for a minute sometimes for 30 minutes. but now here comes the moment of truth i "tell"(no asking) her that i know that she anxious to see me and of course with me telling her that she admitted to it and i couldl hear the enthusiasm in her voice........but i know the game.first night chill dont do much except for the date thats all.............im trying to get her at me. and it is working perfectly
 

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your like a two year old.........

see, what you do is, you take a flower, and then you go "she loves me, she loves me not"

grow up
 

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cmon man that was not cool at all. if thats how you feel do you think i want to hear you tell me that? no why would i ? if you did not like the post dont respond man cmon get real. you grow up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wind20mph

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Come on man!

Grow up!

What's your point in doing this?

Aren't you grown enough to be a two year old?

Don't just grow old, GROW - UP!

Have plans, Make a procedure... (Steps) then DO IT!
 

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Worst thread ever. Not sure it belongs in the mature man forum.
 
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