OK guys, I'm new to getting advice. I'm usually the one giving the advice.
Had a girl I have slept with before come into town for a week to visit her old college friends and primarily to sleep with me.
We had been sexting each other hard for the past month, in anticipation for her visit.
On day one, I picked her up from the airport and went back to a friends place. No one was home and we started fooling around on the couch. She wanted to have sex. My friend was on his way home, so I opted out (Big Mistake). I realize that I ended up looking like a ***** at that point. Sucks. Later that night we went out on the town and came back. Instead of asserting my dominance, I asked her if she didn't care that I slept with her(Mistake again). She actually responded with "Duh, you were supposed to say I am sleeping with you." Well at that point we kiss a little bit and make out, but she won't have sex. The same thing went on the next 2 days except we are at my house and she's sleeping in my bed. She won't do anything with me except kiss. She is holding back. Just didn't seem like she was having fun with me.
Yesterday, I took charge and told her what she was doing. Took her to dinner, probably shouldn't have but I needed a way to get her to having fun with me. So dinner, flirting, laughing, touching, etc was all there. We were having a blast. We went out to a bar later that night and I just did my own thing (Big mistake). When we went home, she comes up to me and says she isn't sleeping in the bed with me. And I go wtf? Whats going on? She said that I had ignored her and was giving all my attention to other girls. She was jealous. I accidentally went from Hot to Cold. I mean I had been rejected 3 times by this girl, to me, of course I'd start considering other options... Still we ended up crashing together.
A mutual friend told me that she is totally into me, but said she is PMS'ing. And doesn't know why we aren't screwing like rabbits. The flirting is there, laughter, and fun... but she keeps rejecting the sex.
The girl is going to be staying with me for 4 more days. Can I flip the script and get us back to doing what she came here for?
Had a girl I have slept with before come into town for a week to visit her old college friends and primarily to sleep with me.
We had been sexting each other hard for the past month, in anticipation for her visit.
On day one, I picked her up from the airport and went back to a friends place. No one was home and we started fooling around on the couch. She wanted to have sex. My friend was on his way home, so I opted out (Big Mistake). I realize that I ended up looking like a ***** at that point. Sucks. Later that night we went out on the town and came back. Instead of asserting my dominance, I asked her if she didn't care that I slept with her(Mistake again). She actually responded with "Duh, you were supposed to say I am sleeping with you." Well at that point we kiss a little bit and make out, but she won't have sex. The same thing went on the next 2 days except we are at my house and she's sleeping in my bed. She won't do anything with me except kiss. She is holding back. Just didn't seem like she was having fun with me.
Yesterday, I took charge and told her what she was doing. Took her to dinner, probably shouldn't have but I needed a way to get her to having fun with me. So dinner, flirting, laughing, touching, etc was all there. We were having a blast. We went out to a bar later that night and I just did my own thing (Big mistake). When we went home, she comes up to me and says she isn't sleeping in the bed with me. And I go wtf? Whats going on? She said that I had ignored her and was giving all my attention to other girls. She was jealous. I accidentally went from Hot to Cold. I mean I had been rejected 3 times by this girl, to me, of course I'd start considering other options... Still we ended up crashing together.
A mutual friend told me that she is totally into me, but said she is PMS'ing. And doesn't know why we aren't screwing like rabbits. The flirting is there, laughter, and fun... but she keeps rejecting the sex.
The girl is going to be staying with me for 4 more days. Can I flip the script and get us back to doing what she came here for?