Girl from college

[MarkHammond]

There is this girl that I used to wanna fukk in college but never did and landed in the friend zone but now its some years later and she has a man and I have a kid but we still close, She just got her own crib and we talk online occasionally and today I picked her up from work and we got some food. The point is that her man hardly ever around and she in this new apt all alone. I even helped her shop for some furniture. We prob go out this weekend my thing is how do I prevent from ending in the ljbf zone and actually take her from this neglecting dude?

 

[Iamnotacrook]

Originally posted by MarkHammond
I have a kid

Get the **** off this site.

God damn.

Can you say fostercare?

 

[Aaron B]

So basically he gets to have sex with her and then do whatever he wants in his free time while you come in and play the "surrogate boyfriend" role and go shopping for furniture with her.

What the hell are you doing?

 

[Big Eee Zee]

i agree, go away. You can no longer DJ wiht a kid. if you want a woman, look for a mother for your child, not ass for yourself.

Some people make me sick...

 

[MarkHammond]

so once u have a kid u cant ****k other girls thats what yall saying? please man life goes on I take care of my kid , Im not playing the surrogate anything. I dont spend alot of time with her in fact yesterday was the 1st time I seen her in years

 

[Blatant truth]

Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
You can no longer DJ wiht a kid.

Stupid comment



and no I don't have a kid...

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
i agree, go away. You can no longer DJ wiht a kid. if you want a woman, look for a mother for your child, not ass for yourself.

Some people make me sick...

Are you serious??

This site is not just all about getting as much ass as you possibly can. It's also about changing yourself, selfimprovement and changing your mindset. Having a child does not mean that you have to stop meeting women! Fs, wouldn't that be stupid??
He should just stop living his life and start being a hermit?

This site helps us improve our success with women, and is just as much needed by people who happens to have a kid as those who doesn't.

 

[Iamnotacrook]

Regardless of what you think, this is not the post of a responsible parent. If you didn't care anything about the mother, I don't see why you nailed her in the first place. I don't have sex with women if I'm not willing to simmer down.

Yes, pretty much what I'm saying is you can't **** other girls until your kids are old enough and mature enough to see that it's a bad example of how a good father should conduct himself. Man up, set a better standard, really.

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Yes, pretty much what I'm saying is you can't **** other girls until your kids are old enough and mature enough to see that it's a bad example of how a good father should conduct himself. Man up, set a better standard, really.

What you're really saying is sleeping with several women is morally unethical and by doing this he is a bad role-model for the kid?

I believe that to find the perfect woman for yourself, who will eventually end up to be the "mother" of the child, you have to meet alot of people and try them out.

Honestly, you can't stop dating just because you have a kid..

You are presenting your opinions in a way that gives the impression that you feel DJ'ing is a bad or even evil thing. It's a good thing. It will eventually help you find the one you want...

 

[Iamnotacrook]

........THE DUDE HAS A KID...

So, basically, he ****s this other girl, has ANOTHER kid, leaves the OTHER stupid ****-*****, then has TWO kids with two different women. Now, those women will either go on to **** some more players and have more babies, or they don't even get that second chance.

They're stuck having kids with a piece of **** who could care less.

DJing is harmful to the world if all you can think about is getting laid.

 

[SparkleMotion]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
........THE DUDE HAS A KID...

So, basically, he ****s this other girl, has ANOTHER kid, leaves the OTHER stupid ****-*****, then has TWO kids with two different women. Now, those women will either go on to **** some more players and have more babies, or they don't even get that second chance.

They're stuck having kids with a piece of **** who could care less.

DJing is harmful to the world if all you can think about is getting laid.

You have you be one of the most retarded people on this site.

So what if he has a kid?

I seriously wonder if people like you even contemplate the words that come out their mouth. You sir have no integrity what so ever. I bid you good day.

PS - Mark Hammond, you didn't really explain the scenario in depth. But it does sort of sound like you are playing the surrogate boyfriend. My advice to you, since you have a history wanting to be with this girl, is to go out to a club and sarge. Forget about her for a while, go get 10 numbers, set up dates. Then go hang out with this girl, or IMHO you have a chance of getting oneitis.

 

[Iamnotacrook]

Dude, **** you and everything you stand for. I am retarded because I'm not selfishly out to use women regardless of the hurt it will cause them? Hmm... because I respect women, I'm retarded... good call.

 

[\O/]

Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Dude, **** you and everything you stand for. I am retarded because I'm not selfishly out to use women regardless of the hurt it will cause them? Hmm... because I respect women, I'm retarded... good call.

Good thing you edited your post...

You won't use women because it will cause them hurt, but you will kill this dude if you met him in real life for calling you a retard?

You have some issues Stan i think you need some counseling...

 

[MarkHammond]

yea im not trying to be the surrogate bf so im not taking her out and all that we just chilled that one day but i do wanna fukk lol and all u other cats posting that i cant see other girls sound ridiculous. yall sound like some afc's