"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl from class gave me the wrong number

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How should I handle this? It might have been a genuine mistake but before winter break I told her that I should give her a call on her birthday (Christmas day) and then she quickly blurted it out and I remembered it.

Before this I got a few IOI's but it was most likely her being friendly.

Anyway, I tried calling it on Christmas eve and lo and behold; wrong number.

I'm going to next her, but she's in one of my classes and things are going to get really awkward for at least a week.

I'm going to assume she did it on purpose. How should I act? And what if she confronts ME and asks me why I didn't call her?

Either way, nexted unless she shows genuine interest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make sure you remembered it correctly. I tried being a badass and remember the number, and I ended up calling a nurse at a hospital who wasn't very happy.

Since then it goes in the phone or I write it down.
 

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I ended up calling this real estate mortgager LOL

So, what should I do if/when she confronts me or asks why I didn't call her? I'm going to tell her that I didn't get the number down right, but I don't know exactly the best way.

I was thinking of messing with her and telling her that she should have said it a little slower or something. This is, of course, assuming she was even giving me the right number.

If she wasn't oh well, NEXT lol.
 

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Create Reality said:
be scared bro!
What the hell is that supposed to mean? lol

Why would I be scared of this girl? it's not like she's going to rip my balls off for not calling her on her birthday, especially since we don't know each other that well...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would just play it cool and tell her that I didn't remember it right, you could even go into the story about calling the real estate etc. and get the real one from there.

If she BSed you, NEXT!
 

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She Is Going To Rip Your Balls Off!!!

Arrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhrrr
 

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"I called.. Unfortunately, it was an real estate agency." (or whatever it was)

*I think it was just a mistake.. If the girl was in the same class as you she would give you the correct #, but just ignore you if she wasn't interested imo.*

Who knows these days though..
 

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Without knowing the whole situation, I would say there is a 50 percent chance you memorized the wrong number and a 50 percent chance she blew you off. If you really want to cut through all the fog, the next time you see her, ask her what her number was again. If she gives you the same number then you know she wasn't interested and you don't even have to tell her you made an attempt to call the first number. If she gives you a different number this time, chances are its her actual number. Whatever you do, DO NOT TELL HER YOU TRIED CALLING HER ALREADY. Your not a challenge to her and she will eat you up and spit you out.



PIMP
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just be like "yo I called your number the other day but when I asked for you, the *****house said you were off with a 'client.' Lemme know when you're off."

ahhh jkjk . dont wanna spoil the holiday merriness
 

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'what to do when a female gives you the wrong number?' you punch her in the face the next time you see her. simple is that.
 

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assuming you noted down correctly...et all.....

chuck it dude.. get over it.. stop obsessing about it.....

act as if all normal... you necessarily needn't next her..

but stop being after her....
 

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nicenomore said:
assuming you noted down correctly...et all.....

chuck it dude.. get over it.. stop obsessing about it.....

act as if all normal... you necessarily needn't next her..

but stop being after her....
LOL

I'm not obsessing over it at all!

I'm not obsessing over much these days, come to think of it.

I'll just wait for her to start the conversation at school, and tell her that I tried calling Christmas eve and ended up calling some real estate agency.
 

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Here's a real piece of advice from me:

She didn't give you the WRONG number.

She gave you a FAKE number.

Move on dude...move on...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Okay, I'm assuming she gave me a fake number.

What to do if she confronts me though?
 

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just go fvckin ask her next time you see her, you don't lose anything either way

- if she's not interested you'll know and THEN you can next her
- if she is interested, she'll realize she f'd up and she'll be on the apologetic side, then it's easier to get the date because of the "make it up to me" frame

some girls are literally bad w/ numbers, some might've changed their carrier the week before, who knows

you don't get points by blowing yourself out
 

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If you are not positive that she gave it to you wrong or if you remembered it wrong, I would verify it first. Tell her you forgot what she said and have her write it down, or you write it down. If you had it correct (and she did give you a wrong #), that's definitely not cool, but if it was an honest mistake, it'd suck to next her due to a simple misunderstanding.

You could pull a move from Swingers and rip up the number, or you could give the number to a really ugly dude/someone she hates, or get creative.
 

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i reckon you should kick her in the ****, that'll teach her to mess with you.
 

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lol haha this has totally happened to me before. What you should do is, ignore her. But you got to make it where she would care, like be class clowning and have everyone in the class involved. And make it seem like you are just having a great time vibing with people. She will look at you, and if she has a personality she will want to or try to get involved. If she doesn't try to get involved then force the person she is next to, thats talking to her to get involved by asking oppionion or something. LIke if she is talking to a guy named dereck be like " i know derek knows where i'm coming from." HE will be forced in and she will be alone and she will have to just barge into the conversation. Thats when you kinda ignore her in a non obvious way, like not giving her alot of energy on her comments, while your giving everyone else loads of feedback and value. You kinda of like give her short replies like "yeah" or just nod your head and go back to everyone else.

If your good enough of a class clown then you know what im talking about, but if you don't have any idea of what i'm talking about pm me for further advice I will get you started.lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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