Girl from 8 years ago

[Tasshu]

Hi guys,

Basically really need some advice about this girl. its kinda simular to one i read earlier with a bit of a difference.

I fell in love with this girl called Jenny about 11 years ago, And we dated for about 3 years. Broke up and never spoke again. December last year we started talking again. And my feelings grew and grew.

Basically she lives in Scotland i live in England. Quite a distance.

The problem is she has a boyfriend she lives with. She said that she will leave her boyfriend for me. But has yet to do so. She lives in Aberdeen and her friends/family live in Edinburgh which is quite far with no car.

We met up in Luton last Tuesday and we had a great time, really clicked. we couldn't stop touching each other, She said as soon as shes home she will end it with him. She didn't. Now she barely talks to me but she sent me a message on Facebook explaining shes breaking up with him. I need to wait a while before it all happens and that we will be together and not to give up.

Its now been a week and all ive been getting is "I need to get my sh*t together and break up with him" She doesn't really say much else.

I know alot of opinions here might be im wasting my time. I said i will give it another 2 weeks and if she hasn't ill stop talking to her.

Any Advice?

thanks guys

 

[AttackFormation]

This is such common bullsh!t that I literally felt like I was reading multiple threads at the same time. My brain kept flipping between different memories.

Just stop paying attention to her communication and pay attention to her ACTIONS instead. It's going to save you the trouble of doing stuff like making threads on sosuave asking what she's doing, instead you can just go on with your life and f*ck her when she breaks up by herself.

 

[Tasshu]

sorry wasnt trying to make anyone angry just really stuck right now.

 

[MattTheW]

Yeah. Watch her actions not what she says

She's still with him after a week - so she's full of sh1t

Yet another triangle (I been where you are mate)
Don't waste your time, find someone closer to home and have fun cos that's what she'll be doing. And then when he pisses her off she'll be back on the phone to you.......

 

[AttackFormation]

sorry wasnt trying to make anyone angry just really stuck right now.

Haha it was a joke, I wasn't attacking you bro. I just meant that even in my short time here I've seen countless guys fall for this sh!t, it seems to work like a charm on us.

 

[hudpes]

The problem is she has a boyfriend she lives with.

Have you actually read what you typed? :crazy: Stay away from her. What this shows is she has no problem grabbing a new branch while still holding on to the last one. And expecting you to wait patiently. What would you think of her if you were the other guy? Because if you go ahead, the odds are, you will be that other guy.

 

[Tasshu]

Haha it was a joke, I wasn't attacking you bro. I just meant that even in my short time here I've seen countless guys fall for this sh!t, it seems to work like a charm on us.

True i do see alot of posts like this. I guess its different when its your own life :/ didnt think id be in this position normally im the one helping people and listening to people.

 

[Tasshu]

Have you actually read what you typed? :crazy: Stay away from her. What this shows is she has no problem grabbing a new branch while still holding on to the last one. And expecting you to wait patiently. What would you think of her if you were the other guy? Because if you go ahead, the odds are, you will be that other guy.

true again, I just struggled for a long time to get over this girl. I guess i just want to be with her. I hate the pain im going through. I sent a message this morning how are things going she saw the message at 10am and hasnt replied since. It seems to be this way alot. I feel bad for the other guy, thats why ive completly stopped myself saying anything to emotional like i wish i was wit u etc. I dont really want a shag. I just wana be with her. Sorry for repeated words. i duno. Just hate this feeling.

 

[Alvafe]

dude, stop, fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me, she fooled you once, why you are letting her do this to you?

you want to know why she sudenly start to contact you after this damn long time? possible her ego was been down so she was looking for a little lift and there you are to save her (ego),

people don't anounce to world they will do something they will do it, they only say it just for that to say it, she will not leave her current BF, more likely he drop her then she does.

BTW you are not the first to ask this same thing, dude move on, going back 11 years for a hold ***** is not worth, for anythinggo for a younger girl