Girl friend into girlfriend

[ShAd0w]

I know this has probably been asked a thousand times, but i really don't have the time to read it all. I never was in a relationship so i know **** about stuff like that. My problem is that i always felt something for my friend which i know for 2 years or something like that.

Now for the basic info:
She was together with my cousin for a while (2 years ago)
She's still a virgin
She's 15 years old but looks and acts much more mature, trust me.
I'm 17 years old, still a virgin and i've kissed 2 girls so far, and both kisses were triggered by them...

I'm not really ugly, it's just that i have little or no self-confidence because i was fat/still am a little.

A few days ago i danced with this girl (which is rare for me, ) for 2 hours, we touched each other a lot (kino or how do you say it), but then she started asking me for advice on a boy, so that's why i guess i'm friendzoned... i seriously don't know what to do, she probably doesn't know i feel something for her, since i don't know how to express myself and "send signals" towards her. I seriously do like her since she gets my jokes and i get hers, and she still likes me even when i'm mean or just act like a sarcastic son of a *****... (i know, i need to change and i'm working on that)...


So my plan is to start behaving totally different around her(how?) and then just see what happens? I will appreciate your help.

 

[ShAd0w]

No suggestions?

 

[eaglez1177]

I know this has probably been asked a thousand times, but i really don't have the time to read it all. I never was in a relationship so i know **** about stuff like that. My problem is that i always felt something for my friend which i know for 2 years or something like that.

Now for the basic info:
She was together with my cousin for a while (2 years ago)
She's still a virgin
She's 15 years old but looks and acts much more mature, trust me.
I'm 17 years old, still a virgin and i've kissed 2 girls so far, and both kisses were triggered by them...

I'm not really ugly, it's just that i have little or no self-confidence because i was fat/still am a little.

A few days ago i danced with this girl (which is rare for me, ) for 2 hours, we touched each other a lot (kino or how do you say it), but then she started asking me for advice on a boy, so that's why i guess i'm friendzonedIf your dancing with her, that means shes definitely into you. Otherwise she wouldnt be dancing with you. When you say dancing though, you mean like grinding with her right? Just because she asked you for advice on some other guy doesnt mean your completely friendzoned. All you had to do was just change the subject real quick and get back to gaming this chick.... i seriously don't know what to do, she probably doesn't know i feel something for her, since i don't know how to express myself and "send signals" towards her.The best way to send signals to a girl is non verbally. When it comes to getting out of the friend zone, you have to use a lot of kino on the girl. That is probably of highest importance, because it shows her that you want to be SEXUAL with her, and that you want to be more than friends (just friends are not sexual at all). Aside from that would be getting into more sexual conversations with her (and by that I dont mean literally asking her about sex, or bj's or somethin). I mean having like sexual innuendos (not in the sense that you should start coming up with sexual jokes, but actually be kinda serious about the sexual innnuendos. I hope that makes sense lol. Like say some sexual innuendoes and give a sexy smile. That works wonders for me.) I seriously do like her since she gets my jokes and i get hers, and she still likes me even when i'm mean or just act like a sarcastic son of a *****... (i know, i need to change and i'm working on that)...


So my plan is to start behaving totally different around her(how?) and then just see what happens? I will appreciate your help.

Hope that all helps!

 

[Nino-Tk]

yep eaglez hit the nail right on the head!

 

[sageproduct]

Hope that all helps!

Since I'm trying to be more sexual right now...basically what you said was make sexual innuendos that people usually laugh about, but instead be kind of serious/sexy?

 

[colombiandude]

Exactly. like say it and let the chick think about it for a second. she'll get it and all you gotta do is give her a nice sexy smile.

 

[eaglez1177]

Well the main part of being more sexual is kino, but using the "sexual talk" like I described above can help alot too. Heres an example: You and a girl are getting into a good conversation, and then this happens:

Girl: Ugh my lips are so dry and chapped today I hate the cold
You: Yeah that sucks I cant stand the cold either

(you two talk some more)

You: Hey lets hang out this weekend, you can come watch a movie at my house
Girl: Yea definitely, heres my number
You: Alright cool, i'll get rid/help those dry lips of yours (and give a sexy smile when you say it)

See what I mean there? By saying you'll "get rid/help" those dry lips, its a sexual innuendo that you're going to make out with her. Obviously this is just a very random example, but I hope that makes it more understandable lol.

 

[faiNt`]

Girl: Ugh my lips are so dry and chapped today I hate the cold
You: Yeah that sucks I cant stand the cold either
You: Hey lets hang out this weekend, you can come watch a movie at my house
Girl: Yea definitely, heres my number
You: Alright cool, i'll get rid/help those dry lips of yours (and give a sexy smile when you say it)

I lol'd at this example eaglez.

But that really is the basic idea. 99% of everything you say, even if you're hardly trying, can be taken sexually. It all depends on HOW you say it and that sexy little smile that you need. Takes practice but when you know what we mean .. it's fun.

 

[eaglez1177]

Hahaha like I said, its just a very basic example lol

 

[sageproduct]

I think I'm starting to get it, here's part of my conversation with a girl today:
Me: You must have been freezing out there.
Her: Yeah!! Geez it was soooo cold
Me: Too bad I wasn't there to warm you up

 

[eaglez1177]

Ehh thats not really a sexual innuendo sage...it doesnt really have any underlying message to it. I mean idk about you but I think any normal person would just take the "warming up" part as simply just warming someone up; not like sexually warming them up lol. You gotta make it a bit more obvious and easier to get the message. In your example, the girl would have to REALLY think sexually to get that as a sexual innuendo, something she wouldnt do. You have to make it so that she can easily understand the sexual innuendo.

 

[faiNt`]

I think I'm starting to get it, here's part of my conversation with a girl today:
Me: You must have been freezing out there.
Her: Yeah!! Geez it was soooo cold
Me: Too bad I wasn't there to warm you up

See, it's all about practice. This is alright but you need to step up the sexual tension. I instantly thought saying something to the effect of "I know what we could do to keep us warm" in that situation. Practice not caring about anyone's opinion too.

 

[eaglez1177]

See, it's all about practice. This is alright but you need to step up the sexual tension. I instantly thought saying something to the effect of "I know what we could do to keep us warm" in that situation. Practice not caring about anyone's opinion too.

Yea exactly this is definitely a better example of what you shouldve said...and I totally agree once you practice it it will become sooo much more easy and natural to you