"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl FRIEND from High School rejected me!

horaholic

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OP, if you're not a troll, then you need mental help, in all seriousness.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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paracelsus said:
Hi,

There is a girl to whom I am in love with for 10 years, secreately. She did not know that until receantly, it was Platonic Love, at least from my side. We were going to High School together and we were very good friends. I thing that there was a little bit chemistry or interest from her side in High School, but it was 8 years ago and maybe that evaporated out of her BUT NOT OUT OF ME!!!!!!!!! WE HAVE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP. It was only platonic, because I am shy, introvert...
A few months ago I contacted her via Facebook(because I see her rarelly and I am shy) and finally admitted to her that I am in love with her for 10 years since highschool. She did not respond me. I know she is not in a relationship. Now, I met her in the town and tried to talk to her but she ran out like I was chasing her with a knife, she did not want to talk to me(and I am really polite and nice guy, but very shy...) I know that I did something wrong, but I do not know what? IT WAS REJECTION, RIGHT?! Is there anything I can do???

SHOULD I REMAIN FRIENDS WITH HER AND IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO OR I HAVE LOST HER FOREVER??????HELP

Sorry for my English

THANX --
Brother, grow some balls. She didn't want to talk to you. You know what that means? SHE doesn't like YOU. Move on find someone who likes you.
Why do you want to pedestal someone who doesn't like you?
Work on yourself man. Being like you say, polite and shy, doesn't get women.
Nice guys DON'T get laid. What I mean by nice is when you're acting as a friend just to become her boyfriend. Nice guys are nasty to girls. It grosses them out. Makes them puke.
Would you want to date a girl that's fat disgusting, has facial hair and **** stains in her panties? Think about it. Change who you are, work on your confidence (so you won't be shy and polite and ****) that's what turns them on. And make sure you don't write this type of bull**** EVER.
 
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