girl friend dumped me yesterday

[WheyProtein]

ive been crying my eyes out for the past 2 days.. i didnt know if it was official or not , because we dumped eachother before, but this one is real....


she dumped me yesterday because i went to her school and i saw her on her cell phone and i accused her of talking to a guy... we been going out for 11 months.. out 1 year anniversary was tomorrow... i bought her a 200 dollar home coming dress and now im not even going with her... she wrote me a email tonite ... saying this...

Dear whey,
I love you ok more than any one out there, but my parents do not want me to date you and after the other day I was pretty pissed so please sell the dress and keep everything because I will be back in your life again, but I need some space because I dont like this fighting and I dont trust you stuff this is my last year and if you still want me when I come back then we will marry and if you dont then well that is my fault I wantt o see if you will still achieve your goals without me. I cant say you are my boyfriend any more because well lately when we were going out i felt like prison got to go



i cried my eyes out like never before.. i left her 4 voice mails on her cell phone since she doesnt pick up anymore.... begging her to giive me another chance etc............. i feel like a wreck.. im a loser... i got nothing.... parents left out of town and im just here in my room... a total wreck... i walked outside to get fresh air and i had no where to go... i have no friends... i got rid of them all for her, because she didnt think they were good for me.. and now i am stuck with nothng.. i really need ur guys support.. and help...... what do i do......

 

[WORKEROUTER]

geez, stop acting like a wussy. this broad was obviously not into you anyway. a $200 dress? f*ck, I wouldn't do that after dating a chick for THREE years!!!

get your f*cking mind off of her. yeah, it's hard, i know, because you "loved" her, but it's going to make you more of a man!

and for gods sake stop crying. you need to go to a strip club, immediately. and join a boxing class.

and stop f*cking calling her and leaving unwanted messages. imagine how much of a wussy you look like by doing that.

she's not picking up because she's banging some other dude (who's not crying)!!

 

[sexy_kuta]

man u gotta change urself,

well im not trying to hurt you but She wont come back to you.. the only reason she said that was to make u feel better... think about it why isnt she picking up her phone?

it sucks but we all gotta start some how right? its alright you came to the right place,

first you need to develop a confident additude, an additude that doesnt leave 4 voice mails and buys a 200 dollar dress,
dont be surprise if she got a new bf,

my tip? well my biggest tip i can offer you is to read the bible, read it over and over and study it,

but you need to build up the confidence man,

and if u want her back WIch is do able, only if you change yourself to an attrative male, then she will relize u changes and will chase u back,

but dont get ur hopes up, read the BIble and study it. then emply it

good luck

 

[Mintyfresh]

Wow .... even i was never as pathetic as you. From what you say that chick has been using you since the day you met. Why not just get a huge sign that says 'human doormat' and wear it around your neck.

Look, any girl that makes you change your friends, spend money on her, give you any reason to doubt her loyalty to you diserves to be fvcking kicked to the curb.

To top it all off she told you that being around you was like being in prison... I mean what the fvck, I'd go off on the b*tch and tell her that she is devoid of any morals or kindness and wish her luck with her next fvcking "pet" boyfriend. I'd remind her that if she were born a couple of hundred years ago she'd get raped and abused for her looks instead of worshiped.

Stop being a pvssy seriously, wtf are you doing crying over such a horrible girl.

 

[Phyzzle]

(He means read the DJ Bible, bottom of the page.)

You were too possessive, and got canned by "the girl of your dreams" but I was like you when I was 18. You'll get over this, like I did, like we all did.

 

[Phyzzle]

To top it all off she told you that being around you was like being in prison... I mean what the fvck, I'd go off on the b*tch and tell her that she is devoid of any morals or kindness

Mintyfresh, your words are hardcore, but wrongheaded.

Being with this guy WAS being in a prison. He saw her talking on a cell phone. Once. He freaked out and said she was cheating! Clearly, the guy was totally in the wrong here. The chick is completely straight, as far as I can tell.

 

[sexy_kuta]

Wow .... even i was never as pathetic as you. From what you say that chick has been using you since the day you met. Why not just get a huge sign that says 'human doormat' and wear it around your neck.

Look, any girl that makes you change your friends, spend money on her, give you any reason to doubt her loyalty to you diserves to be fvcking kicked to the curb.

To top it all off she told you that being around you was like being in prison... I mean what the fvck, I'd go off on the b*tch and tell her that she is devoid of any morals or kindness and wish her luck with her next fvcking "pet" boyfriend. I'd remind her that if she were born a couple of hundred years ago she'd get raped and abused for her looks instead of worshiped.

Stop being a pvssy seriously, wtf are you doing crying over such a horrible girl.

dude get the fuk out of here if you going to talk like that, learn some respect, back off

even if he wasnt as pathetic as you were, But you WERE still pathetic back then, EVeryone starts somewhere, no ones the same, he has the power to learn like all of us,
give him tips instead of bashing him

 

[WheyProtein]

Guys thanks so much for taking the time to help me out, im really glad u guys are here for me like this because i dont have anyone else to look toward for advice..

well anyways yeah i am going to give her space, not call her anymore, basically do my own thing and if she comes around ill see if iwant to let her come back into my life but im not so sure... i love her.. but logically speaking i think its best if i dont be with her...

well just 2 weeks ago, she was complaining about how she felt tied down by me, how she wants to enjoy her senior year etc etc.., how she couldnt enjoy her freedom to be with friends, of course i thought to myself, ok she wants to date other guys thats what she means, well she says thats not true but i know it is... cus i wasnt restircting her whatsoever to be with her friends... anyways yeah whatever im a idiot i know this.


ok.. should i leave my myspace the way it is with all our pictures on it and crap or do i just take it all off???

do u guys really believe she only told me that we'd get married if i still loved her in the future just to make me hold onto some hope and not totally destroy me?? just to let me down easy........ ? =(

 

[skip2mylou781]

dear all repliers to the original poster -

you are all CHUMPS, "sosuave robots", this guy is NOT a wussy.......look at his other thread, he was fvcking his gf EVERY SINGLE TIME that he saw her!!!!

i wonder how many of u get that much ass on a regular basis???

and guess what else, this is the only girl this guy has ever had sex with, so the emotional attachment is very VERY obvious and understandable

THIS IS LIFE - wheyprotein, u decided to fall in love (something i can relate to trust me), and uve gotten screwed over (something i can also relate to).....i was EXACTLY like u with my first gf who i dated for 9 months and who took my virginity too when i was 18 - i came to her for a week and cried and begged her to take me back, needless to say it didnt work and shes a *****

however, keep in mind that U drove this girl away for being too jealous (cell phone incident u just descibed), not giving her good enough sex? (from what i read in your other thread), and oh yea, also being too young (high school)

everything put together, its a perfect formula for heartbreak!!!

i got news for you - IT ISNT OVER!

ignore her, ignore the HELL out of her, delete ur myspace, DISSAPEAR from her life for 1-3 weeks

then all of a sudden after shes called u 100 times in 2 weeks, pick up on the 101st time, and talk to her like u always have, with love

at that point, she WILL want to work things out.........u might as well try it, but dont u DARE just move on with ur life, thats the easy "sosuave robotic" way out!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...well just 2 weeks ago, she was complaining about how she felt tied down by me, how she wants to enjoy her senior year etc etc.., how she couldnt enjoy her freedom to be with friends, of course i thought to myself, ok she wants to date other guys thats what she means, well she says thats not true but i know it is... cus i wasnt restircting her whatsoever to be with her friends... anyways yeah whatever im a idiot i know this....

Before you get back out into the dating pool consider focusing on yourself for a while, it sounds as if a lot of your identity was based on being with this girl. That's probably why she felt tied down and why you are taking it so hard now. Your identity was heavily based on your relationship with her, your breakup was almost as if someone has taken away your right arm.

Start rebuilding yourself to make yourself a better guy than when you first started dating her. Do this until you feel good about yourself and she's out of your system. That'll be the time when you'd be ready to start sarging again; you'd be a better you with your baggage unpacked.

 

[ObieJuan]

think about it this way: not only did you save yourself more precious time but you also won the Pvssy lottery! Congrats! Now you can dedicate yourself to learning from your mistakes and making yourself into a man.

 

[Royal-tiger]

I don't understand why some moron digs a b!tch so much that he tarnishes his self-respect just to come across as more low-life.

 

[WheyProtein]

thanks a lot for the great help guys....

I was planning to just ignore her completely. but now its so hard... now i cant help but keep calling her and calling her.... damnit... ill explain....


today i woke up at 6 in the morning because she called me, her grandpa dropped her off at school, her grandpa had her anniversary present that she already been working on for like 2 months for me....

i got it from his car and took it home, opened it up it was teh sweetest thing in the world.. it had our pictures in it, and a ton of letters from everyday she wrote it in about how she loved me.. and a huge 3 pages about how we first met and how its oru anniversary, but i knew she wrote it before she broke up with me.. then the letters go on.... the last 2 letters she wrote how we arent together anymore...

ill write exactly what she wrote in the last 2 letters...


"I have not wrote in my secret presen for a long time, but now thtat we are done again i think we should be done for awhile. youre a great guy and a very loving. i did not like the overprotecveness about you or the spyness either. blah blah blah blah ( talking about how she palnned her life and getting jobs and her carreers) i always prayed god would get me a man who loved me and i found you and happy then you left that side of you somewhere and became grouchy. i missed thet old wheyprotein and i became bitter and then we went back into love and i found someone i had a huge crush on! lol just kidding i had a crush on (last year) and i treated you harshly and then skip that to now and i loved you more and more and you became bitter about things and you certain things upset me. then i started school and you started working out i had dance you got friends i got friends on myspace you got a days with the guy so bascially everything i did you got me back.

LAST LETTER

well although we are not together right now i will get you back and whoever you are dating in the future i will punch her and kiss your lips and let you remember everything we had i love you, but i knew this year was going to be hard, but once i am 18 i will be back for you... because ic an do what i want i love you and we just have a break. i want the man i marry to support himself. dont cry im here.. (it had 2 faces drawn with our names over it.. (inbetween some letters it said happy anniversary in huge letters in between the letter...)


okay so yeah i was really suprised about this notebook and it showed me how much she loved me and cared for me and she did so many things she drew a picture of me made this clay thing and painted it with love and hearts and in the paradise. cus we always talked about having a pradise and she drew picture sof it all over...


so now u can see how much i must really be torn up inside... i was planning to just not call her anymore but now i just cant lose her i am so wrecked now...

i dont know what to do.. i want her back..............it was killing me how she wrote that i would be with another girl cus she is going to be with another man too i bet... i dont want another girl i want her.. i dont know **** when i read all the letteres it was killing me inside how stupid i was for acting and i was crying and i called her cell at school and left her voice mails like that....

 

[WheyProtein]

*bump*

i came back from the gym, with my AIM opened up and my gf wrote all this to me...

10:05] happy anniverary
[10:05] anniversary
[10:05] i hope u liked my gift it took me a long time to make
[10:06] I miss u baby
[10:06] but i think we needed a break it was best
[10:06] you were the best guy i ever had though
[10:07] i did not need anything but you and you made me so happy
[10:07] I hate the way things are right now and I cannot get to my

email because my mom blocked it so i wanted to say i will love you

forever we will be together again.
[10:08] i cant go to homecoming with you baby please forgive me
[10:08] I LOVE YOU
[10:08] :-(
[10:09] signed off at Wed Oct 04 22:09:16 2006.



i dont understand if she loves me why she would do this to me ....

 

[Centaurion]

It sounds like your regular high school drama. I went through the same thing with my first crush in HS.

Trust me, when she goes to college and gets gangbanged by the entire football team, she won't spare you a thought. Focus on yourself for a while and try to do something with the overprotectness thing you have going on.

 

[sexy_kuta]

It sounds like your regular high school drama. I went through the same thing with my first crush in HS.

Trust me, when she goes to college and gets gangbanged by the entire football team, she won't spare you a thought. Focus on yourself for a while and try to do something with the overprotectness thing you have going on.

true thats hwy i dont do high school dating,

your young, HAve fun while ur single DUDE trust me once ur in that age and u got oNE girl, u'll look bad and think, why didnt it take advantage of my high school year??

high school dating is fun but its not healthy if u get into it, too in to it

 

[WheyProtein]

guys, im out of highschool, but what you are saying is exactly what my gf is applying and thought up herself... she wants to enjoy her senior year, have freedom etc... without me... i love her... broke my heart........

 

[WORKEROUTER]

guys, im out of highschool, but what you are saying is exactly what my gf is applying and thought up herself... she wants to enjoy her senior year, have freedom etc... without me... i love her... broke my heart........

No more posting for you on this. You know what you need to do. Get out and improve yourself. A "break?" That means that she wants to suck some other c*ck. I'm not even joking.

My first gf wanted a "break." Luckily I was man enough to tell her to f*ck off. Point is, she was out with this other dude a day later, probably sucking his c*ck.

Yeah, I felt like sh*t, but I sarged on, and ended up banging two different chicks that month, and one of them was a virgin!

Anyway, stop posting these wussy posts about how you loved her, you were the best she ever had, anniversary gifts, etc. Your t-levels need to get up. Go to the gym.

 

[Wyldfire]

Read this...it will make you feel better:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=97881

 

[insanity]

whey. she is shafting you bigtime. i remember back when my girlfriends said we need time apart. i got the same line "i still love you though". thats just killer women logic. and then when i was licking my wounds, i would get emails from them saying i miss you, and i love you, but it is for the best that we are not together anymore. then i would reply back like a moron, giving my undying love and attention, saying i would wait forever for them. they probably read those emails to their friends and snickered and laughed at how unmanly i was. can anyone say loser in valleygirl speak.

heres where the real kick in the stomach happens. you finally think you have moved on and life seems to be better and you haven't thought of her in a while. then out of the blue she'll either call you or email you, spewing the same garbage that they miss and still love you and BAM it happens the dreaded oneitis hits again. you reply thinking you have a shot at winning her heart back because hey she misses you and she took the time to write you. so you reply back only to find out she met the greatest guy. she talks about how you and him would be great friends....whey is it sinking in yet.

whey just take a few days and don't reflect back to the fun days spent with this skank. think of all the badtimes and why it is the best reason to move on.
if you focus on how great she was and all the goodtimes you had you'll be stuck for a long time.

they'll be other girlfriends.