"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Note The Smote - Que paso?

Dude - I'm curious to know what happen to the condom girl!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by note.the.smoke
i was hoping for serious advice....
Okay, here's some serious advice. You are up whipped creek without a damn PADDLE. You know the answer to this dilemma, and it's to simply stop giving in to your girlfriend. It's not complicated, so please do not post replies looking for more answers or details. Do what YOU want to do, and only what YOU want to do. Don't do what you don't want to do. If she puts up a fight about it, stand your ground.
 

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Any broads I've ever known who had their own condoms (usually in the drawer at the side of their bed) were complete hors.
 

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GET THE HELL OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP AS FAST AS YOU CAN.

I say this from personal experience!!!!

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Any broads I've ever known who had their own condoms (usually in the drawer at the side of their bed) were complete hors.
I second that.

As PR_L say (and I always laugh my azz off, haha): Say NO to "I have 200 condoms ready to rock and roll right here on my side" hos!
 

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Update:

Well i sorted out the arguement i wrote about on here, but since then she's tryna control me in other ways, like trying to get me to buy her things i cant afford.

I ended it on friday.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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About time someone had the courage to put a woman in their place!! Although you should have dumped her for being a hothead "I want my condoms" Ho ----- she doesn't even have a penis!!!!!

Her message to you by asking for "her" condoms was that you aren't getting into her hole until you do as SHE says!!!
 
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