"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl flirts like mad, Teases me, laughs at my jokes - Said she'd call me back but hasn't.

backbreaker

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see i told you

this is why it's important to have hobbies and ****. if you were out hunting or playing the guitar or something you wouldn';t be thinking like this and she would ahve called and you would have been none the wiser
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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malz1

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I've had a woman ask for my number only to flake the next day. Even guys who get into deep rapport with females often get flaked. Girls flake because they still have many options. They're always reconsidering their options for the best one. Move fast, my friend.
 

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Flirting with someone and asking their number when they are working has a low chance of success. If you want a nurse. Get out, socialize. An available nurse who is a mutual friend of one of your friends has a much higher chance of success than someone you never met and who is on the job.

Women vet their men. A pre-vetted man is very desirable to women. The equivalent of a cold-call, not so much.

Also, always go younger, never older. Women pay attention to your status. The younger the women you are with, the higher your perceived status. Even if women will NEVER admit this.
 
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