"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl flaking, is that a comfort issue?

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So is a girl flaking on meet up a comfort issue? Had this girl flake on me, but easily got her number so I'm thinking the attraction was there but not the comfort. I'm keeping her number and I'll hit her up in a few days, maybe try to develop more comfort before going for a meet up again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I only delete a girl's number when she becomes completely unresponsive (like she never answers texts or picks up her phone for me). Or if the girl does something completely ****ed up like shows up at my place to **** one of my roommates.
 
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PHAT Rabbit said:
Damm son...that happened to you? Sorry dude...

I still wouldn't delete a girl's number if she is ignoring me though...just try to reconnect with her a couple months later or something - you seriously cannot go wrong just sending a stupid text out and it's always good practice.
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Yeah, happened a few times with the same girl. She ****ed him first but continued ****ing him in secret after she said she stopped. Though she slipped up a few times when she was drunk. Eventually she confessed to me about all the times she lied to me about where she was while in fact she was with him.
 
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