"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl flaking, is that a comfort issue?

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So is a girl flaking on meet up a comfort issue? Had this girl flake on me, but easily got her number so I'm thinking the attraction was there but not the comfort. I'm keeping her number and I'll hit her up in a few days, maybe try to develop more comfort before going for a meet up again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I only delete a girl's number when she becomes completely unresponsive (like she never answers texts or picks up her phone for me). Or if the girl does something completely ****ed up like shows up at my place to **** one of my roommates.
 
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PHAT Rabbit said:
Damm son...that happened to you? Sorry dude...

I still wouldn't delete a girl's number if she is ignoring me though...just try to reconnect with her a couple months later or something - you seriously cannot go wrong just sending a stupid text out and it's always good practice.
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Yeah, happened a few times with the same girl. She ****ed him first but continued ****ing him in secret after she said she stopped. Though she slipped up a few times when she was drunk. Eventually she confessed to me about all the times she lied to me about where she was while in fact she was with him.
 
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