"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl flaked on third get together

Ringleader41

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So ive hooked up with this girl plenty of times and she invites me over, but she gets caught up in work late night and told me she was going to be late. I could smell mrs. flakeys scent after that. After she tells me shes coming she then asks me if I want to do it another day or something and that its up to me. If she really wanted me to come over she wouldn't have said that, so I just say no worries. She than talks about how its going to be fun next time and I call her bluff and ask when is next time and she says tomorrow, but I know shes full of shvt. Im guessing I should ghost.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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VladPatton

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The relationship needs a break. Give her a nice chunk of time to miss you. If she doesn't, you know what to do.
 

Ringleader41

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I told her that she could just come to this party instead and she said yes but she still wants me to come over and hang out with her. I said fine whenerver ur not busy. Im just going to leave the ball im her court for me coming over. Im not initiating that anymore.
 
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