"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girl flaked. Good or bad response?

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So, this girl flaked on me.. it was only the first time but her text was crystal clear, something along the lines of:
"I couldn't sleep yesterday and I am very tired, so I prefer resting tonight, I hope that is ok with you"... No counter offer or anything.

Well no b1tch it is not ok.... I even bought a new shirt!! Anyway, I was consider only 2 possible answers
1. "Ok sure. Some other time perhaps."
2. "Not a problem, rest ;) some other time perhaps"

They might seem similar, but here, sadly, Went with the smiley ;) didn't even realize it until sent it!.. Now, I don't give a fvck, she's nexted. But flakes will continue to happen so, for future reference. You guys think number 1 was a better response? even though it might reflect anger/being upset? any other suggestion?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mike32ct said:
I prefer to text "ok" and leave it at that.

She doesn't know if it means...

A) Ok no worries

Or

B). Ok bytch. You're NEXTed.

It really makes the hamster spin.
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Regardless, if a girl flakes, you have failed. She's in another castle. Do you think a girl would flake out on a date with Channing Tatum? Nope, she'd reposition the moon to make that happen.

Case closed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nismo-4 said:
Regardless, if a girl flakes, you have failed. She's in another castle. Do you think a girl would flake out on a date with Channing Tatum? Nope, she'd reposition the moon to make that happen.

Case closed.
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Potentially agree, a girl having guys of higher value than you in their orbit will be less inclined to decrease flaking or mitigate the damage caused by such flakery.
 
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What if u say....no problem. I was out all night and need to rest also.

Bam...
 
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"I couldn't sleep yesterday and I am very tired, so I prefer resting tonight, I hope that is ok with you"

You: Sure. Is your sister available?
 
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