"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl finally came home from 10 day trip.

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and it was wierd at first..we were talking about everything and how I have a chance to go to go to Cali I live in stl for a job and I wanted to see how she felt and this and that.

and I have to say we are moving from love of some kind to more of a "we", "us" mature love.....I suppose I am lucky to not only find an amazing women is attractive, atleast in my eyes...and who loves me this much.


this is amazing and Im laying it out on the line for this women :)

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good Stuff!

All i can say, is that I'm happy for you man:)


Laterz...
 
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Just keep the reality check. You know how it goes...Don't let that interest tank. You can still give a little of yourself without that happening.
 
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Just keep the reality check. You know how it goes...Don't let that interest tank. You can still give a little of yourself without that happening.
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I hate to tell you this......


but thats not possible....a womens IL cannot drop if she loves you..

unless you completely mess up. Its hard to get that threw to most people here because of there bad past with women.


but its not near as bad as it seems to be from the stuff on this place.

im an emotional person..and ive come close to tears many times talking to her about something passionate or this and that....ive shown her everything and she comes back wanting more and more. I hope everyone who wants that..finds it.
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I hate to tell you this......


but thats not possible....a womens IL cannot drop if she loves you..

unless you completely mess up. Its hard to get that threw to most people here because of there bad past with women.


but its not near as bad as it seems to be from the stuff on this place.

im an emotional person..and ive come close to tears many times talking to her about something passionate or this and that....ive shown her everything and she comes back wanting more and more. I hope everyone who wants that..finds it.
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Your right, a women's IL won't drop if she is in love with you but there is always a possibility of her falling out of love with you.

I wish you all the best I really do but I just hope it does'nt go 'tits up' because I'm not sure you'll be able to get over it.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would be able to handle it.

but it wont happen.

again falling out of love is much over-rated....probably a less than .1 percent chance if surved.

dont let negative people like tit-man ever get u down.
 
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