"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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girl finally came home from 10 day trip.

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and it was wierd at first..we were talking about everything and how I have a chance to go to go to Cali I live in stl for a job and I wanted to see how she felt and this and that.

and I have to say we are moving from love of some kind to more of a "we", "us" mature love.....I suppose I am lucky to not only find an amazing women is attractive, atleast in my eyes...and who loves me this much.


this is amazing and Im laying it out on the line for this women :)

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good Stuff!

All i can say, is that I'm happy for you man:)


Laterz...
 

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Just keep the reality check. You know how it goes...Don't let that interest tank. You can still give a little of yourself without that happening.
 

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Just keep the reality check. You know how it goes...Don't let that interest tank. You can still give a little of yourself without that happening.
I hate to tell you this......


but thats not possible....a womens IL cannot drop if she loves you..

unless you completely mess up. Its hard to get that threw to most people here because of there bad past with women.


but its not near as bad as it seems to be from the stuff on this place.

im an emotional person..and ive come close to tears many times talking to her about something passionate or this and that....ive shown her everything and she comes back wanting more and more. I hope everyone who wants that..finds it.
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
I hate to tell you this......


but thats not possible....a womens IL cannot drop if she loves you..

unless you completely mess up. Its hard to get that threw to most people here because of there bad past with women.


but its not near as bad as it seems to be from the stuff on this place.

im an emotional person..and ive come close to tears many times talking to her about something passionate or this and that....ive shown her everything and she comes back wanting more and more. I hope everyone who wants that..finds it.
Your right, a women's IL won't drop if she is in love with you but there is always a possibility of her falling out of love with you.

I wish you all the best I really do but I just hope it does'nt go 'tits up' because I'm not sure you'll be able to get over it.

Respect

G-man
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

frivolousz21

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I would be able to handle it.

but it wont happen.

again falling out of love is much over-rated....probably a less than .1 percent chance if surved.

dont let negative people like tit-man ever get u down.
 
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