Girl drives 1 hour 30 Minutes back to Heypachuco's place but doesn't LAY?

[HeyPachuco!]

History:

I've known this girl for a while now. Been speaking or atleast more than a year. Thing is we've never gone on a date or done anything together. We've only just reinitiated contact again. Since we last spoke she's been in 3 LTR's.

Her Friend:
Too my knowledge, her friend didn't tell her that we had sex, either way she wasn't bothered by this. They're quite close to, which makes me think maybe she isn't in to me? But she did keep bringing it up and was shocked to find out that we did have sex. Her friend wanted an LTR after the sex, but I called it off.

Situation NOW:
So I went down to her place tonight, she said she was ill, so we didnt go out for anything to eat, her mum was in and her older brother, so i figured we won't be having any se tonight.

Girl: How are you getting ack home?
Heypahcuco: I'm not sure, i guess I'm just gonna have to drift somewhere (smirk)
Girl: that snot nice
Heypachuco: I knows (sad face)
Girl: Do you want me to drop you home?
Heypachuco; Urrm, do you now your way (smiling)
Girl: I think so, A406 right?
Heypachuco: uh huh
Girl: Lets go
(Get into her car)
Girl: I hope you arent planning on making me go out, because I dont feel well
Heypachuco: Listen, your coming out, you'll be fine once we get to the bar
Girl: I cant babe, I got work at 9, I didnt go in today, so i have to go in tommorow
Heypachuco: Urmm, okay, well I'm not forcing you
Girl: I gt so drunk last night, I can taste alcohol again or I'll be sick
Heypachuco: no probs
(So whils I'm leading her on a longer route, I'm thiking how I can get her back, because I have 3 parties to go to)
Girl: I'll come out during the week
Heypachuco: Wow you actually drove all this way, I should say thank you (smiling)
Girl: Lol
Heypachuco: I'll speak to you soon
Girl: (kiss on the cheek)

Why would she drive all that way, but doesnt come in? I didnt say so but then again, I doubt she wouldve said no I have to go, I saw some ioi's, but not enough for me to gather up whether shes 100% attracted. Shes definetly comfortable. I know I'm not in the Friendzone either, because we've always flirted with eachother. HEAVY flirting. Should I expect something during the week? if she is attracted?

 

[Brighty]

History:

I've known this girl for a while now. Been speaking or atleast more than a year. Thing is we've never gone on a date or done anything together. We've only just reinitiated contact again. Since we last spoke she's been in 3 LTR's.

Her Friend:
Too my knowledge, her friend didn't tell her that we had sex, either way she wasn't bothered by this. They're quite close to, which makes me think maybe she isn't in to me? But she did keep bringing it up and was shocked to find out that we did have sex. Her friend wanted an LTR after the sex, but I called it off.

Situation NOW:
So I went down to her place tonight, she said she was ill, so we didnt go out for anything to eat, her mum was in and her older brother, so i figured we won't be having any se tonight.

Girl: How are you getting ack home?
Heypahcuco: I'm not sure, i guess I'm just gonna have to drift somewhere (smirk)
Girl: that snot nice
Heypachuco: I knows (sad face)
Girl: Do you want me to drop you home?
Heypachuco; Urrm, do you now your way (smiling)
Girl: I think so, A406 right?
Heypachuco: uh huh
Girl: Lets go
(Get into her car)
Girl: I hope you arent planning on making me go out, because I dont feel well
Heypachuco: Listen, your coming out, you'll be fine once we get to the bar
Girl: I cant babe, I got work at 9, I didnt go in today, so i have to go in tommorow
Heypachuco: Urmm, okay, well I'm not forcing you
Girl: I gt so drunk last night, I can taste alcohol again or I'll be sick
Heypachuco: no probs
(So whils I'm leading her on a longer route, I'm thiking how I can get her back, because I have 3 parties to go to)
Girl: I'll come out during the week
Heypachuco: Wow you actually drove all this way, I should say thank you (smiling)
Girl: Lol
Heypachuco: I'll speak to you soon
Girl: (kiss on the cheek)

Why would she drive all that way, but doesnt come in? I didnt say so but then again, I doubt she wouldve said no I have to go, I saw some ioi's, but not enough for me to gather up whether shes 100% attracted. Shes definetly comfortable. I know I'm not in the Friendzone either, because we've always flirted with eachother. HEAVY flirting. Should I expect something during the week? if she is attracted?

Sounds like you should've went for it instead of waiting until you know 100% or not if she's attracted, you're going to miss out on a lot of opportunities that way. It's possible you're in the friend zone, or you had a shot that night and blew it, or she's just a nice girl to do that for you. Either way I doubt you're going to get some from this girl after that night.

Also,

Heypachuco: I knows (sad face)

Win, WINS and EPIC WIN

What kind of man talks like that? How old are you dude?

 

[Maxtro]

I'm no expert on women but it seems you made an error.

Her driving you 1 hour and 1/2 back to your place is a big IOI.

You invited her out and she said she was sick and didn't want to go and drink.

Did you consider trying to get her to stay at your house and skip the parties? I'm sure it wouldn't have been that hard to convince her to stay over.

I can't say anything about what happens next.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Brighty - I'm using another computer at the minute, and my hardrive keeps cutting out, so I had to type up a quick thread with some spellign errors, Thats why it seems like I'm talking like a wuss and I couldn't care about sigs, I just typed up something whilst I was probably drunk or high. Whilst everyone is writing up great philosophies I have a retarded sig,

Maxtro - Dude, I did make an error, the reason I didnt ask her to come in, is because she had work at 9, so I didn't bother. Plus as I said, I was thinking of how to scam her into going to a bar with me instead of straight dropping me to my pad. She suggested this first and then on the way said she kept feeling ill. Maybe I did blow it, but its stalemate right now, I'll know during the week I guess. No-contact for her until she makes a move.

 

[kingsam]

she probably didnt want her friends sloppy seconds either

 

[Dante420]

tease her about that:crackup:

be like "so i can get u to drive all the way out to here just to see me and I dont even gotta fukk, i must be the man" just b playful