"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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girl downstairs is a tease

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this new girl that just moved in below me is really friendly to me and all the guys. ive smooth talked her and kinod her and all that and i finally got into her apartment and on the couch with her, even though her roommate was in the room also. after about a half hour she gets up and goes upstairs to talk to the guys on the third floor. i feel like she is either testing me or is just a huge tease. how do i deal with a girl like this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wtf were you doing in her appt not maintaining her attention? you obviously didn't make a move. make a move and tell me how it goes.
 
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ha, thats exactly what went through my mind but we were sharing a couch with her roommate right next to us, should i have still made a move? it just didnt feel right.
 
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She probably doesn't want to get involved with the dude who lives above her. And you shouldn't get involved with some b*tch who lives right below you, just as you shouldn't hit on chicks at work. Same principle.
 
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Zarky said:
She probably doesn't want to get involved with the dude who lives above her. And you shouldn't get involved with some b*tch who lives right below you, just as you shouldn't hit on chicks at work. Same principle.
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get involved? i just wanna bang her. im just gonna make a move next time i see her, i was being a pvssy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah, let us know how that works out for ya.
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aren't you the guy that said not to hit on girls at work too? your view points are weird sometimes man, maybe cuz you're almost 40. you really think me making a move on a girl that is clearly into me a bad idea just because she lives close to me?
 
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aren't you the guy that said not to hit on girls at work too? your view points are weird sometimes man, maybe cuz you're almost 40. you really think me making a move on a girl that is clearly into me a bad idea just because she lives close to me?
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you shouldnt hit on girls at work cause the harassment policies are firmly in their favor but girls who live next to you are fine for some tappage, just remember that clingy ones can turn stalkerish and they DO know where you live and whatever, then again if shes getting to know all the guys shes probably an AW or an AW who is starving for some lovin
 
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The best deepthroater I ever had was my neighbor in my first appt complex when I moved to phx. When I met her I didn't mess around, but that was cuz she was 17 and I was 23. When she turned 18? I went balls deep in that batch on the regular till she moved outta state. She came over to chill, I lived alone so it was instant isolation, made my move, stuck my tongue in her throat, grabbed/smacked her ass (ALWAYS smack that ass during the first make out session. hard too, not soft shat instantly establishes dominance!) and placed her hand on my ****, next thing I knew she was on her knees with a shaft down her throat.

Oh yeah, she had the fattest azz for a white girl too! Believe I smashed doggy

Classic questions/interest test questions:

If your on a different couch, or she's not sitting close enough to make a move, "why you sitting all the way over there. Come sit over here" Why? "Because I asked you to, even did it nicely"

Just be casual and gentlemanly when she sits closer, if she has long hair, push it over to one shoulder so it don't get yanked/pulled and is comfy for her (learned that from my momma!), typically go for the far shoulder since I can make moves on the near side of her neck and ears. That pretty much gets the pvssy wet and the rest is just patience, isolation, and timely escalation. Don't be afraid to take her hand and put it on your caulk after some worming up. Gets the **** on her mind and usually in her belly! At least her mouth
 
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you shouldnt hit on girls at work cause the harassment policies are firmly in their favor but girls who live next to you are fine for some tappage, just remember that clingy ones can turn stalkerish and they DO know where you live and whatever, then again if shes getting to know all the guys shes probably an AW or an AW who is starving for some lovin
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i meant hitting on girls when they are working and you are a "customer". i agree about the clingy factor though, thats the only thing im worried about but i feel like the juice is worth the squeeze and young juan, you are my favorite poster.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who the f*ck said banging a neighbor is a 'bad idea'?

I'm thinking back to college.. 3/5 neighbors successfully banged since then. Bad move? Only if you're foolish enough to give them a set of keys..

Oxford- what do you think this is, Sunday School?

We're grown up now kiddo. Sitting on a couch shooting the **** about where I grew up and what TV shows I like ain't gonna cut it any longer..

Women are always looking to be emotionally stimulated. For god sakes, make them laugh a little bit. Poke fun at the cuter one while you're playing the uglier one up. Get the blood flowing.. move around and confidently tell them you're going to grab a drink from their fridge. Ask them what they do for fun.. then poke fun at them again for being so damn cute.

Finally, make the exit FAR before conversation becomes stale. No awkward goodbyes.. a simple, 'alright ladies, gotta hop. nice meeting you' is all that's needed.

The idea is to walk into that room, lay down some intense emotional f*cking vibes as the first impression, and walk about before they've halfway digested that sh!t.

Now, proceed to do the dougie all the way back down the hall to your door, celebrating in classless fashion.
 
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