"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl doesn't want to have sex until in a serious relationship

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What would you do if a girl told you that she didn't want to have sex until she was in a serious relationship? Would you just look for someone else who would be willing to have sex or stick around and see where this relationship goes? Also would you have someone on the side for sex if you decide to wait it out with the other girl?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's about time somebody reconized this. Women aren't into the sex so much as into a relationship. It's up to you to sell the idea to them like the carrot and a stick.

It's amazing how hard they will perform when the possibility of a future relationship is used like this.

I always tell ho's that I'm looking and considering my options so that they will be motivated to try harder to be the "one".
 
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If i met that I would take a girl out on a very romantic date which ended back at eithers place with some redwine, candlelights etc. There I would be my mysteryself... Where when I talk I give some intense but devious looks (hard to explain) the kind of looks that seem as if you look into their soul but they don't know what is behind your look. I would also be very suggestive... I'm not very good at describing what I do. I just have an inate ability to get girls very very horny.

That's atleast what I would do. Get her into a dualistic mood where only you two exist, where you focus on her and her feelings, body and energy. If you make her feel safe, secure but also make her feel really horny, desirable and most important desire you I would be surprised if she wouldn't put out...
 
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Either get into a relationship with her or move on...
 
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would it be wrong to get into a relationship with a girl just for the sex and how many of you would do it or have done it? how did it turn out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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would it be wrong to get into a relationship with a girl just for the sex and how many of you would do it or have done it? how did it turn out?
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100% of guys do this. welcome to life.
 
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how long?

How long would you wait before you next this girl? A date? Two or three dates without any physical/sexual contact? How many of you would be satisfied with a hand job or a blow job as opposed to intercourse, initially?
 
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Some girls want a relationship before sex. Some just want sex. Some guys just want sex. Some just want a relationship and don't mind not having sex for a while.

As far as how long you'd wait to get sex...That's your choice. If you are only looking for sex, one or two dates or "get togethers." If you want a relationship...You won't mind not having sex, you'll just be glad to be with her.

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