Girl doesnt like aggressive guys

[NSUballer]

This girl I know at college is really an awesome girl. Shes smart, funny, beautiful(HB 9+), sexy and has alot going for her. The only problem is that I cant figure out what to say to her, i know one of her friends and she said she doesnt like aggressive guys. I was never aggressive with this girl at all, I was just talkin to her like i would anyone else. She was at my house one time and we were talkin about some crap and i ended up looking holding her hands like i was lookin at them and stuff. Anyways her friend had told me that she thought i was cute and she wouldnt tell me if she liked me or not so....and she told me she doesnt like aggressive guys, What the hell is goin on?

 

[DonJuanMonk]

When a girl says something about what she doesn't like in a guy (ie. aggressive guys) she is talking about you. UH OH...
friends zone.

 

[kk2004]

hmm

she prob wants you to be more aggresive....than your being...if she was at your house...then why not ask her out for a date....but dont try to kiss her...this way your safe if she doesnt like aggresive guys..but make sure you have a blast and leave her wanting more..on that first date..

Just be aggresive enoung to ask her out...but its really isnt that aggressive IF she is into you...which she seems.

Hell even if she thinks of you as a friend you cant be sure unless you ask her..you really dont lose anything..bcuz she wont tell you flat out how she feels..

Maybe you could build the attraction up first where you feel that your safe enough to procede.


my 2 cents

 

[NSUballer]

I did date her once but i was retarded then and we went to the movies. I believe that I can get her to go out with me again though. Shes really into her schoolwork and I know that she isnt really interested in any other guys, but shes different than other girls and I cant figure her out.

 

[Blatant truth]

Originally posted by NSUballer
I know that she isnt really interested in any other guys, but shes different than other girls

No

I know that she isnt really interested in me , and she's really no different than other girls

FIXED

 

[NSUballer]

No dummy shes not a really outgoing girl when it comes to guys, if she wasnt interested at all why would she come to my house at 4am?

 

[Blatant truth]

No dummy shes not a really outgoing girl when it comes to guys, if she wasnt interested at all why would she come to my house at 4am?

She was at my house one time and we were talkin about some crap and i ended up looking holding her hands like i was lookin at them and stuff

You had your chance for action, FRIENDS ZONE, move on buddy. Don't get mad, just learn from it and improve.

 

[NSUballer]

The night she came over at 4am we had went to the club earlier and she came by afterwards. I was drunk though and I wasnt really trying to run game. I said i dated her before and I know shes a virgin because she told me so there goes that.

 

[kk2004]

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if you already dated her....then yeah you should forget it..bcuz in the bible it says that once a girl forms a opinion of you..that its very hard to change...she prob thinks your the same person..so just move on.

 

[NSUballer]

Well thats obviously not true because i thought she was a completely different person before when i dated her, and now that opinion has changed and i think hers has to.

 

[Blatant truth]

Just ask her out and make a move, then you'll see how she feels/thinks about you.

 

[Evangenlion]

his in love with the girl and hates that we're telling him his in the Friend Zone, cuase thats where he seriously doesn't want to be in.

so here we go, telling you what you want to hear :"man your the don...wooo gods gift to women and whatever you do is gold and its not you, its her, you can't figure her out because she's retarded like a bat".

when she says "i don't like agressive guys" just translates to "i don't like people who don't allow me to decide whatever, and are always pushing me to do things etc" something along those lines.
"i find it hard to say no, so i don't want to be in situations where i have to say no, cus i sooo soft that i feel bad when i have to say no" and god she is sad creature that u need to leave alone man, regardless how hot she is.

or.... all you have to do is make her believe that she's sucking your **** because she really really wants too.


laying it down

 

[Jon341427]

Originally posted by NSUballer
Well thats obviously not true because i thought she was a completely different person before when i dated her, and now that opinion has changed and i think hers has to.

well make your move and lets get this settled. i am in the middle in this arguement, i think it can still go either way.

id rather get rejected from being too aggresive and knowing it, then thinking "**** maybe i wasnt aggressive enough", but not really knowing.

goodluck

 

[Desdinova]

i know one of her friends and she said she doesnt like aggressive guys.

When women talk about what they like and don't like in a man, it's just that, TALK. Women will tell you what kind of man they want, but their actions will prove otherwise.

Don't take the aggressive comment seriously. She's just trying to talk logical.

 

[Sargeholic]

Aggression is NEVER poorly received if you have attraction. I read a survey once that 98.8% of all women enjoyed the idea of being controlled/led/taken/dominated. Compare this to that only about 90% enjoy sex, 80% enjoy receiving oral sex, etc. and you have to deduce that this is a woman's #1 desire.

The only case this may not be true is if she recently was a victim of a rape or assault. Otherwise, its hardwired into her.

 

[NSUballer]

Im gonna make a move tommorow lets see what happens...

 

[NSUballer]

I got it

Well i did what came natural and just started talking to her and finally asked her out and now we goin out tonite and have plans for tommorow. Shows how much some of you guys know which is nothing.

 

[Borgon]

There is a difference between aggressive vs assertive. Try it

 

[Mr. Cardio]

Let me be real with you NSU, if you are still around, majority of the posters here today are all AFCs that have either just joined or to lazy to do a search and get some real azz results with women.

A woman is attracted to a man because HE completes her, she doesnt complete him....let me explain..l

A woman gets horny over the guys who are dominant, dominant in thinking, and body language, its just the way he walks, talks, acts, etc, do you see where I am gettting at?

When you act like that aruond women, you dont even have to say SHYT, and women will begin being all nice to you, touching you, etc, etc....trust me buddy.

OUr attraction to women is based on her looks and what we can give her(that dyck), her attraction is based on completeness and how she can be filled.....fill the void in her by being the dominant male, and you attract women everywhere! And once the attraction is there, everything else will fall in line. And hey, I would stop asking these azzholes on here today for advice, do a search next time and read the quality posters like Gunwitch, etc, these guys have the complete story and the shyt that is the truth and will pull results, not some educated guess from a guy who is scared to approach a girl, wtf.

 

[locarius]

She means she doesnt like it when guys do the WRONG THING aggressively.

If you 'get it', you can be aggressive and it will work.