Whats up I'm new here. I'm pretty well rounded with women. I'm no Casanova but well on my way and could easily fill those shoes if I had the time and money. Anyway even the most succesful seducers, puas, players, etc get flustered, run into a problem or notice a change in a womans behavior and are left wondering wtf. I know about oneitis and that sh*t is deadly but if u like a girl u like her and if she makes u crazy and gets under ur skin its ok just never show it. Ive had 4 girlfriends at once but there was this one girl that had me under her spell. Now I know I may be jumping the gun, being over-zealous but I really like this girl. I understand the logic and understand that thoughts arent real and they only occur in the mind and it's action and whats happening in the present is what matters. Now on to my dilemma..
Ive been dating this girl for about a month. I know her from my church so weve know each other, just never been friends or anything becuase she is young but has always had a crush on me, she admitted it to me several times when we would talk every once and a while. She is Extremely beautiful. I would link her myspace page to all the doubters but thats a line I would never cross just trust me and level with me. On our first date which was the first fri in August she said she just got out of a relationship because her BF was immature and she wanted to be single. I told her single was for me too and wasnt looking for a relationship. She says she gets bored easy and acts a lil coquettish so I i knew I had to put in work. So the date seemed real light and fun, had some heavy makeout sessions, hands all over, under, etc. I could have had sex with her that night but her curfew, she even teased me telling me we could have gon back to her place earlier. After the date throughout the following weeks I flirted with her via text, charmed her. Called maybe once a week. Just to keep her interest up and keep her wanting more. That was the only date weve been on because were both pretty busy so I had to keep me on her mind.
This past fri we finally went out again, got some dinner, came back to my place and smashed. Afterword she became really giddy and clingy. Wanting me to hold her, telling me she could fall asleep in my arms, staring in my eyes, telling me she loved my eyes. She came to me twice wanting attention and tried to block the t.v. Like I said I played it cool and I noticed she pulled back a lil bit because of my distance and could tell she was falling for me and even left her lil key chain in my car. I dont know how it got there but its here. Now that happen fri and its monday. I texted her last nigh. A lil flirty/teasing text not too heavy, real light and playful and she hasnt responded back. Now I know it hasnt even been a day yet Im not crazy but the catch is that I know her patterns and she is really predictable. Every time I text her she immdediatly responds or responds not too much later. When she text me I always wait at least an hour. Every time I call she always picks up, Ive never even heard her voicemail. Now Im playin it cool trust me, I havent called or texted her and can except if she indeed moved on. I dont have oneitis or nothin, this is the girl I choose to want to be with but I admit I may be slightly paranoid and just need to relax and see what happens but damn I have 2 gf's right now and a few reserves and I dont care about them. I want her. Based on you alls experience, if a girl u had sex with once all of sudden changes what could that mean? If u follow up with her a day or 2 later and dont hear back whats that mean? Based on how I described my behavior with her could have influenced her change of behavior? I know she's prolly thinkin of what happened and may just need space, or want to chase me and give her that challenge or lost interest, confused, scared of attachment, afraid of seeming needy or power trippin, etc. Who really knows these are all hypotheticals and thoughts. At the end of the day tho I'm just gonna play it cool and see what she does. If anything I'll call her later in the week. I just want some quick advice from some of the don juans here based on there knowledge and experience. Btw I love this site. Alot of people here know what there doin. So pease help a fellow Don Juan out..Thx.
Ive been dating this girl for about a month. I know her from my church so weve know each other, just never been friends or anything becuase she is young but has always had a crush on me, she admitted it to me several times when we would talk every once and a while. She is Extremely beautiful. I would link her myspace page to all the doubters but thats a line I would never cross just trust me and level with me. On our first date which was the first fri in August she said she just got out of a relationship because her BF was immature and she wanted to be single. I told her single was for me too and wasnt looking for a relationship. She says she gets bored easy and acts a lil coquettish so I i knew I had to put in work. So the date seemed real light and fun, had some heavy makeout sessions, hands all over, under, etc. I could have had sex with her that night but her curfew, she even teased me telling me we could have gon back to her place earlier. After the date throughout the following weeks I flirted with her via text, charmed her. Called maybe once a week. Just to keep her interest up and keep her wanting more. That was the only date weve been on because were both pretty busy so I had to keep me on her mind.
This past fri we finally went out again, got some dinner, came back to my place and smashed. Afterword she became really giddy and clingy. Wanting me to hold her, telling me she could fall asleep in my arms, staring in my eyes, telling me she loved my eyes. She came to me twice wanting attention and tried to block the t.v. Like I said I played it cool and I noticed she pulled back a lil bit because of my distance and could tell she was falling for me and even left her lil key chain in my car. I dont know how it got there but its here. Now that happen fri and its monday. I texted her last nigh. A lil flirty/teasing text not too heavy, real light and playful and she hasnt responded back. Now I know it hasnt even been a day yet Im not crazy but the catch is that I know her patterns and she is really predictable. Every time I text her she immdediatly responds or responds not too much later. When she text me I always wait at least an hour. Every time I call she always picks up, Ive never even heard her voicemail. Now Im playin it cool trust me, I havent called or texted her and can except if she indeed moved on. I dont have oneitis or nothin, this is the girl I choose to want to be with but I admit I may be slightly paranoid and just need to relax and see what happens but damn I have 2 gf's right now and a few reserves and I dont care about them. I want her. Based on you alls experience, if a girl u had sex with once all of sudden changes what could that mean? If u follow up with her a day or 2 later and dont hear back whats that mean? Based on how I described my behavior with her could have influenced her change of behavior? I know she's prolly thinkin of what happened and may just need space, or want to chase me and give her that challenge or lost interest, confused, scared of attachment, afraid of seeming needy or power trippin, etc. Who really knows these are all hypotheticals and thoughts. At the end of the day tho I'm just gonna play it cool and see what she does. If anything I'll call her later in the week. I just want some quick advice from some of the don juans here based on there knowledge and experience. Btw I love this site. Alot of people here know what there doin. So pease help a fellow Don Juan out..Thx.
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