girl disrespected me

[eko]

It was her birthday today... We went out and just chilled and got ice cream and stuff. I took her back to her house and I go we can make this night fun and went in to kiss her but then she backed out was like "This isn't spontaneous enough". I was pretty shocked... apparently she was really into me and stuff but now I don't know.

Then I texted her and go "I can't believe u"... so then she calls me and was all like wah wah wah... I told her straight up to not disrespect me anymore and she goes on about the spontaneity crap again and she asked how that was disrespect. Then I explained it to her and told her not to do it again. She asked me to go to the beach tomorrow and stuff

What should I do about this girl... give her another chance or no?

 

[DamHE]

how is she disrespecting you by not wanting to go too fast

 

[tmpgstx]

She didn't put out - next her azz. A DJ has too many women that will put out at the drop of a hat for him Let her know who is in charge, no beach date tomorrow.

 

[datsexynigga2009]

no!!!!dont listen to those 2 virgins DONNOT NEXT HER!

If she asked you to go to the beach,well guess what??Go fuk her,remeber she is *****,fuk her,if she wont let u fuk after 2 days then next her.

Donnot next her right now,go to the beach chill with her,fuk her,play with her!

 

[total_afc]

She did not disrespect you. You acted like a spoiled brat when she didn't let you kiss her. Try again later. But first, grow up.

It was her birthday today... We went out and just chilled and got ice cream and stuff. I took her back to her house and I go we can make this night fun and went in to kiss her but then she backed out was like "This isn't spontaneous enough". I was pretty shocked... apparently she was really into me and stuff but now I don't know.

Then I texted her and go "I can't believe u"... so then she calls me and was all like wah wah wah... I told her straight up to not disrespect me anymore and she goes on about the spontaneity crap again and she asked how that was disrespect. Then I explained it to her and told her not to do it again. She asked me to go to the beach tomorrow and stuff

What should I do about this girl... give her another chance or no?

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

She didn't disrespect you...she just didn't want to kiss you just then.

In any case, if anyone, man or woman, disrespects you, you act with the civility that they couldn't muster. Lashing out or disrespecting them right back isn't "alpha", it's stooping to their level. The ability to move on and keep your integrity is more important.

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

^Agreed, the 'I can't believe you' comment was probably not a good move. Just act like it never happened.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Typical shyt for those in the know - the hor wants to be in control!!!! Tell her that she should be grateful for your initiative!! Is she a virgin? If no, then then why in the hell is she trying to act innocent? The reason? Because it is she who wants to be in control!!!

 

[DJDamage]

You didn't raise her interest in you therefore she rejected you. Is that too hard to understand? You think just because you take a girl out for icecream for her birthday that you automatically get a pass and be allowed to get into her pants???!! tighten up your game and stop posing like a bad man saying "YOU DISRESPECT ME" because she didn't do that but you are just trying to hide your own shortcoming.

 

[Last Man Standing]

You didn't raise her interest in you therefore she rejected you. Is that too hard to understand?

Wrong kid - she asked him to go to the beach tomorrow - she wants shyt on her terms - what people call "hard to get" !!! If she is a virgin then this is ok; however, if she is a ho then it is about control!!!

Pimps control hors -- don't go to the beach - take her out on your terms!!

 

[lookyoung]

Typical shyt for those in the know - the hor wants to be in control!!!! Tell her that she should be grateful for your initiative!! Is she a virgin? If no, then then why in the hell is she trying to act innocent? The reason? Because it is she who wants to be in control!!!

LMS is right. I went out on 3 dates with this girl. Who claims to have slept with only one guy. I almost fvcked her on the 3rd date(hand job,dry humping,sucking on tits) you get the picture.

Well anyways I am having a conversation with her on the phone and she says she will not have sex again until she is married.I was like WTF. No way would I marry a non-virgin without having sex with her first.

All nonvirgin girls should be treated the same. Virgins should be treated accordingly.

 

[Last Man Standing]

No way would I marry a non-virgin without having sex with her first.

Correct!!!! She opened her legs to a man who was not committed to her but yet will not let the man whose intent is to marry her taste her nectar? Marry a virgin - this tells you that she is of a sound mind and values her husband!!!!

 

[ConantheLibertarian]

LMS is right. I went out on 3 dates with this girl. Who claims to have slept with only one guy. I almost fvcked her on the 3rd date(hand job,dry humping,sucking on tits) you get the picture.

Well anyways I am having a conversation with her on the phone and she says she will not have sex again until she is married.I was like WTF. No way would I marry a non-virgin without having sex with her first.

All nonvirgin girls should be treated the same. Virgins should be treated accordingly.

:crackup: At her, not you lookyoung. Holy Toledo, she acts like she can go back by saying she won't have sex again til marriage. Sort of a false reborn virgin. What more, she'll probably take it in every orifice except the pink taco and think she's still a virgin. More like a dirty hor who regrets surrending her femininity before marriage!!! And now she will put up a facade of chastity to obscure her lying hordom!!!!!

 

[SomethingClever]

Here's what i think. It was a test, and you failed by snappin at her. If she flakes on you tomorrow, then i was right. You should've played it cool and just said whatever. It's all about that WWBD. What Would Bond Do? If Bond faced this situation, then he would've just been like whatever, and go CF on her. He'd probably end up making her beg for it.

 

[eko]

hmm I think it was kind of a test... this girl is bossy and likes to have her way.. I mean really have her way with everything. No one was doing anything that night and we decided to chill. It just surprised me thats all that she didn't put out... at all. this wasn't even the first time we've gone out and she even told me she was into me and everything... so I was dumb and figured I had it, and went for it, took the initiative which she said she wanted to happen, then didn't take it. In the car something like this came up and I said I'd dump a girl that didn't put out... so I guess I have to stick to my word. yeah I don't think I was interesting enough to her that night because we had nowhere to go. bad mistake. i messed up. I didn't really lash out on her either, she called me and was like "are u mad?". I said no but just don't like disrespect me like that and I don't give a crap about spontaneity and if she needs spontaneity then tough luck. Didn't go to the beach with her today.

Should I call her to talk or something or wait for her to call me? Man I really need to get out there and meet other girls some more... some girls that are at least mature

and yes this girl is a virgin. she hooked up with one guy before... and she is hot. we get along well. I think she's worth it and it'll be hard to move on if i have to but i might

 

[total_afc]

You've got some growing up to do.

hmm I think it was kind of a test... this girl is bossy and likes to have her way.. I mean really have her way with everything. No one was doing anything that night and we decided to chill. It just surprised me thats all that she didn't put out... at all. this wasn't even the first time we've gone out and she even told me she was into me and everything... so I was dumb and figured I had it, and went for it, took the initiative which she said she wanted to happen, then didn't take it. In the car something like this came up and I said I'd dump a girl that didn't put out... so I guess I have to stick to my word. yeah I don't think I was interesting enough to her that night because we had nowhere to go. bad mistake. i messed up. I didn't really lash out on her either, she called me and was like "are u mad?". I said no but just don't like disrespect me like that and I don't give a crap about spontaneity and if she needs spontaneity then tough luck. Didn't go to the beach with her today.

Should I call her to talk or something or wait for her to call me? Man I really need to get out there and meet other girls some more... some girls that are at least mature

and yes this girl is a virgin. she hooked up with one guy before... and she is hot. we get along well. I think she's worth it and it'll be hard to move on if i have to but i might