"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ARrocket

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I was out with a girl I knew from high school (just graduated). We decided to get together since I'm leaving for college in a couple of weeks.

Anyway, she kept making comments about how we're "just friends" and how "this would be a nice place for a date." She had always been "touchy-feely" with me, and I tried to kino it up...she didn't reciprocate, but she didn't seem too bothered by it. At one point I gave her a hug and kissed her on the cheek...I planned on kissing her flat out but all of her comments threw me off.

Do you guys have any experiences with this type of thing? I'm not sure if I'm being too vague...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she probably doesnt want to escalate and start something because you're both gonna go seperate ways to college
 
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