"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girl didnt give it up

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So this girl comes over tonight to watch a movie or whatever. I initiate some kino and she responds well. Then, I go further in kino and she keeps responding. I just go in for the kiss and get it all. As I'm kissing her, I stroke her hair and all that bs. I let it get pretty heavy then I start to move my hand around her stomach/tits then try to work my way down. I couldnt get my hands all the way down, she kept trying to stop me. But, I did manage to get overtop her pu$$y above her jeans. Then, I just started to kiss her neck but still no dice.

What should i do? Keep trying next time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mystery calls it freezing out. I don't agree with it let her no your a little bit upset but you understand don't treat her like dirt or do treat her like dirt it depend on which she responds to best. If you're a jerk which I don't think you are. Just keep trying and go a little bit slower
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe she's a virgin.

Maybe she's not ready to have sex with you.

Maybe you're going to overanalyze this because women are supposed to have sex with guys as soon as they put the moves on them, right?

Try again and see what happens.
 
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at least u went further than 75% of people here bro, but just keep goin man, you will reach into her someday man
 
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A) You're still in the game

B) Don't give her the ol' "V" title quite yet...

C) Keep it smooth, don't let her know it bothers you but it should stay moving foward. I repeat keep it moving foward but don't show her if you happen to become frustrated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WhitePimp

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Freezing out slightly works wonders!:moon:

I've had girls go from not even wanting to kiss yet, to going all the way to sex just by moving away slightly and becoming gradually disinterested until the desire becomes so strong they literally pull me back in.
 
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You're still in the game, keep being persistent. Don't force it.

Miss could be right that she could be a virgin or doesn't have a lot of experience.
 
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What date was this?
1st, 2nd, 3rd?
Some girls make guys wait a certain number of dates or weeks or months, etc... The current girl I am seeing made me wait 2 months... Southern girls are like that though. I would not be WITH her if she gave it up so easy.

I say...
She is interested, but her guard is still up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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