"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl denying we had sex?

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Now ive had a lot of drunken sex in my day...but ive never had a girl deny we had sex after we clearly did

Last week met a really really hot girl at my friend's party. ended up banging her at the end of the night after everyone had left so loud my friend said he could hear us

weekend ended and i met my friend for some beers. the girl i boned is friends with his girlfriend so i asked her the deal to see where things were heading, what she thought etc. He told me she was down for friends with benefits but claims she told his girlfriend we didnt actually have sex...which he admitted confused him since he heard the whole thing

what in the fuk...

i mean i could understand her lying to her friend to save face for sleeping with me so soon..but im sure she realizes this is one of my best friends and him and his girlfriend will talk so i dont really get whats happening

she sucked my ****, and i hit it from behind until i blasted my nut fast into that rubber


curious what you guys think of this.....i mean we were both drinking but she was more than cognitive...seems impossible, and most likely complete bs, that she just forgot...what is the point in a lie like this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tictac said:
Welcome to chickworld.
dude im closer to 30 than i am 20 at this point....i thought i heard it all

makes absolutely 0 sense....we were in a room right next to my boy and his girl....she cleaned the room the next morning and picked up empty condom wrappers....how, and why would she deny it happened?

blows my mind because ive been talking to her a bit over the last couple weeks and shes acting very nonchalant like i didnt bust a nut inside her several days prior...i feel like i just got a number from a stranger at starbucks
 

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Probably embarrassed that she had sex with you.
 

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Why the hell are you reading into this so much? Who gives a sh!t what she tells her best friend? Perhaps she doesn't want her to think shes a wh0re, or think less of her or any number of things. If she was telling you that you guys never had sex that would be odd..but she isn't. Who gives a crap?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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