Girl-dancing

[adpreston1988]

Okay, well there's this girl that I need some help with. Basically, I know she likes me (I don't know how much though) but the problem is that there's another guy, who happens to be one of my good buddies, who she also seems to like. We both like her and whenever we go to dance clubs we end up sharing dance time with her and it's becoming frustrating. What can I do to win her over? I don't want to just win her over because I'm competitive or because I want to beat my friend. I just really like her and don't want to have to constantly be sharing her with my friend. Is there anything I can do while dancing with her that'll get her to fall for me over my friend?

Also, whenever I ask her if she wants to go clubbing we always seem to go in a big group. What can I do to get just her and me to go clubbing? I know I can just ask her, but that would be letting her know how much I like her and I thought I'm supposed to avoid this being a DJ. What other way can I go about this to have some alone dance time with her? Thanks!

 

[adpreston1988]

Any advice?

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Asking her to go alone with you isn't "telling her you like her".


Just be like "Hey babe, I say we go to the club this weekend, you know just you and me. That way you don't have to worry about all your friends tryin to get with me" and then wink at her.

 

[adpreston1988]

Does anyone else think I should just go ahead and tell her that her and I should just go dancing or is this a bad idea? Anyone have any first hand experience in this?

 

[adpreston1988]

Hey guys, sorry to be so eager to receive some advice but I plan on going to a dance club this week/weekend so I need some feedback ASAP.

 

[penkitten]

is there already a group thing planned for this weekend?