"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AttackFormation

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"I might be stupid to write but I miss talking with you and wonder how it's going for you nowadays so I'll take a chance: hi. How are you?"

This was a girl that *I* dumped. This is also not a case of me dumping her because I thought she was about to branch swing or anything like that. It's simply I f*cked her once and left (because I didn't want to be tied down with her). This girl actually has asperger's syndrome by the way.

I don't mind seeing her BUT I wanna get advice from you guys on how I can make sure she understands I won't be tying myself up with her without hurting her to the point that she won't have regular sex with me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yorkex

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Just be honest with her. Let her know she is attractive but not the one for you , meaning you will still sex but don't have a long term plan for her. Just keep her in the friend zone , you don't need to talk to her every day just make her your orbiter looooooool
 

Between_The_Lines

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Deliver the news in girly-girl vernacular: "We can still hang out but nothing serious, mkkay??" She'll get it.
 

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Between_The_Lines said:
Deliver the news in girly-girl vernacular: "We can still hang out but nothing serious, mkkay??" She'll get it.
Thank you Mr. Macckkkkkeeey.....

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

"Women you need to stoop... Mkkay.. Pull down your paaaaaaants... mkkkey... and take a piece of my big fat sausage in your taaacccco mkkkay... mmmkK..."
 
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