"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"I might be stupid to write but I miss talking with you and wonder how it's going for you nowadays so I'll take a chance: hi. How are you?"

This was a girl that *I* dumped. This is also not a case of me dumping her because I thought she was about to branch swing or anything like that. It's simply I f*cked her once and left (because I didn't want to be tied down with her). This girl actually has asperger's syndrome by the way.

I don't mind seeing her BUT I wanna get advice from you guys on how I can make sure she understands I won't be tying myself up with her without hurting her to the point that she won't have regular sex with me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just be honest with her. Let her know she is attractive but not the one for you , meaning you will still sex but don't have a long term plan for her. Just keep her in the friend zone , you don't need to talk to her every day just make her your orbiter looooooool
 
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Deliver the news in girly-girl vernacular: "We can still hang out but nothing serious, mkkay??" She'll get it.
 
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Between_The_Lines said:
Deliver the news in girly-girl vernacular: "We can still hang out but nothing serious, mkkay??" She'll get it.
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Thank you Mr. Macckkkkkeeey.....

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"Women you need to stoop... Mkkay.. Pull down your paaaaaaants... mkkkey... and take a piece of my big fat sausage in your taaacccco mkkkay... mmmkK..."
 
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