girl confusing me

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Bill

Senior Don Juan

Nov 23, 2005

Originally posted by the pain
ok so all of you dj's are telling me to leave but what about the way she looked at me and what about when she and her friend actually came and stood next to me I was very far from them .....
I mean maybe she is trying to play hard to get.
Could it be possible...or what

No, it's not possible. Move on, forget about her. Stop trying to convince yourself that maybe this and maybe that, you're only setting yourself up for disappointment. Trust us, some of us have been there.
For the last time... there is plenty of fish in the sea.

-Bill

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.