"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone ever have a catfight break out between two girls looking for your affection? Or somewhere leading up to that? Or whatever two determined girls do when they think their man (or so they hope) is up for grabs?

Both girls are pretty starry eyed right now and are of the type not afraid to protect their chances with me. Right now not sure which one I want to get involved with. Decent chance all three of us will come into contact with eachother sooner or later (neither girl knows of the other yet). Just kinda curious what to expect and to do if this ever happens and wether or not I should do anything to avoid it in the first place by keeping them seperate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I once had 2 girls who were friends who started lieing to each other and going behind the others back every way possible to get with me. It was quite the ego boost. Nothing like having women fight over you.
 
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Oh, are you into some ****...
I was /still am at the same situation. I was stupid enough to invite my gf and my best female friend to my birthday party. The latter started flirting with my roommate, then made some victim act about how he's chasing her. It all ended up with my best male friend breaking the head of my roommate. NEVER gonna try that again!

Anyway, just decide what to do with them and enforce your decision. Getting them to resolve it by themselves is a BAD IDEA.
 
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