"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl coming over to "watch movie"....

mark123

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...and I'm afraid only that might happen! Although we made out and groped heavily on the last date, so she knows what's coming :)

I'm guessing my best bet is to make a move before we put the DVD on...she is a movie buff - and it's likely she might even get upset if I try to distract her in case she likes the movie, lol (girls are weird!).

Any thoughts on best approach of how to time it/go about it? Sorry for approaching it like some "formula"....I know i just gotta DO IT caveman style but just need to know when - not soon enough to appear like a hungry wolf as soon as she gets in and not so late that she takes it like an insult if I make a move too late...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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gaspipe

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The worse thing you can do is to immediately escalate upon seeing her. You have to set a romantic tone first and get her comfortable. I would buy a bottle of wine. Its always a sexual mood enhancer and then slowly but surely initiate kino and slowly escalate while you guys are watching the movie. Always works for me at least
 
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