"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl coming over to "watch movie"....

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...and I'm afraid only that might happen! Although we made out and groped heavily on the last date, so she knows what's coming :)

I'm guessing my best bet is to make a move before we put the DVD on...she is a movie buff - and it's likely she might even get upset if I try to distract her in case she likes the movie, lol (girls are weird!).

Any thoughts on best approach of how to time it/go about it? Sorry for approaching it like some "formula"....I know i just gotta DO IT caveman style but just need to know when - not soon enough to appear like a hungry wolf as soon as she gets in and not so late that she takes it like an insult if I make a move too late...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The worse thing you can do is to immediately escalate upon seeing her. You have to set a romantic tone first and get her comfortable. I would buy a bottle of wine. Its always a sexual mood enhancer and then slowly but surely initiate kino and slowly escalate while you guys are watching the movie. Always works for me at least
 
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