Girl coming over to cut my hair

[BlueAlpha1]

Long story short:

Met a 22 year old HB7 working at the barber shop a good 3-4 months ago. Got a few cuts where I played it cool, but amped it up some the last two haircuts and got the #. I've initiated most of the time, but my game has been tight enough where she responds within a minute or two and with a joke. Made a few efforts to hang out but was always met with aloofness. However, she's really into my travel habit and asks to keep in touch so we can travel together when she gets her finances in order.

A month ago she texts me she's leaving the shop and to come in and see her one more time - I make an appointment but never go in. I had to respond with a little aloofness of my own.

An entire month goes by and takes us to now. I hit her up for a travel gig but she's still broke, but asks if I need a cut. I said yes and ask where is best for her - she suggests my place. We're on for tomorrow at 6 pm and I'm kicking my roommate out for a few hours.

The way I understood game if a woman is willing to go to a man's apartment, it's a foregone conclusion. My deranged BDP ex would make up all kinds of excuses and then just "happen" to bang these guys. She obviously knows what I want and is taking some risk hoping I'm not a psycho just for $20...

Thinking I will offer her "something to drink" and list a few alcohol beverages to be hospitable - subtle enough but will give me my answer. Thoughts?

Thoughts?

 

[Trunks]

Quite some years ago, a bartender I had been friendly and flirtatious with, offered to give me haircut at her place. She said she was also a hairdresser ... Being naive as I was, I thought she was being friendly. Once I was there, she must've looked at her bedroom more than four times, made sure her sister's room was closed while the sister slept, and asked me if I had plans right after... Paid her 20$, thanked her and that was the first and last time I was at her apartment or got a haircut from her. DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE, THIS GIRL WANTS THE D.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

And you don't make anything of her aloof attitude and tight girl-game?

How about your thoughts on offering drinks as my move? There's no option for kino while the haircut is going on, so a verbal cue that she'll stick around and have a drink opens the door for after the cut. Far more subtle than grabbing her hips...

 

[dustmuffin]

I was married and invited over for a cut like you. She rubbed her tits all over my back and head while she cut my hair. I didn't take the bait. She even offered to show me her store bought tits. Since I was married at the time I did nothing. I did get my haircut several more times always with a titty massage. If I had been single I would have hit it many times. Take action...All she can do is say no....

 

[BlueAlpha1]

Haha..love all the responses and similar stories fellas. My roommate just agreed to leave for the night

 

[dustmuffin]

And you don't make anything of her aloof attitude and tight girl-game?

How about your thoughts on offering drinks as my move? There's no option for kino while the haircut is going on, so a verbal cue that she'll stick around and have a drink opens the door for after the cut. Far more subtle than grabbing her hips...

Don't overthink it.....When she cuts your hair notice what she does. She can do all sorts of things to you. After the cut offer her the drink. Depends on if you want a haircut. I think I would offer her the drink first and then make my move.

 

[El Payaso]

After the cut, tell her that the cut was so good that you would like to pay her extra with a massage. Whip out the oil and go to work. One thing leads to another and...

 

[BlueAlpha1]

This one strikes me as a flake, but that's been my fate in 2015. It's been a year to forget and is probably clouding my view on this negatively