“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl claims to have "fear of commitment issues"

Robert28

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I tried to date this girl a few years ago but she wasn't interested. She like's em tall and fat, well I'm only 5'9" and in shape. Yeah I said it right, tall and fat, not tall and in shape or tall and skinny.lol anyways a few months ago I was out with some friends celebrating my friends girlfriend's graduation from nursing school. The girl I'm speaking of is best friends with my friends gf btw. I was hammered and having a good time and that other girl showed up and we danced, madeout some, etc. Alcohol really is the great equalizer.haha I did hangout with her a few times after that because I wanted to try and bang but she sees me as anything but that. She's a single mom that has dated losers all her life and is pretty much a known hoebag, not exactly the type I want to "date". anyways I never could bang her because I never have that kind of luck with slvts for whatever reason so I moved on. She started seeing someone else (ie. banging them regularly for a couple weeks and calls it "dating them"). my friend is the one that told me she was seeing some other dude. I instantly deleted her number and have been ignoring ever since.

She texts me randomly the other day this long crap about how she has fear of commitment issues and blah blah blah. I knew it was bs so I didn't respond. She never did mention in her text that she liked me or anything, just kept going on and on about her commitment issues. She's still texting me with "please talk to me!!!" and crap like that and I keep ignoring. The thing is I wonder if I have a chance to bang her now or is it my wishful thinking? Like I said I don't want to date her because she's not dateable but for whatever reason she sees me as potentially long term dating material. I figured I could use that to my advantage to pump and dump. I also keep thinking "dude, you've tried twice, it ain't happening, don't fall for it. no pu**y is worth this much trouble!" The thing is it's an ego thing for me. I see dudes getting it so easily from her and it takes a hut to my ego that I have to put in some big time effort and still come up short. It's more of a thing I want to prove to myself more then anything. Any advice? Text her back or just keep ignoring because it's most likely not going to turn out like I want?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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reply..."im not interested in your crap now fvck off"
 

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I say leave it alone, man. Your gut instinct is 105% correct on this one.

You wouldn't put a piece of bubble gum that fell on the barber shop floor back into your mouth because you can't see the hair on it from 5' away now would you?
 

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betheman said:
reply..."im not interested in your crap now fvck off"
I figured my ignoring her texts sent that message.lol Here's the text I was talking about:

Robert28 I made a mistake. I made it out of fear. I'm terrified of commitment, I'm scared of the outcome because it's never ended well. I run the moment I think there might be a spark. I did not feed you a line of crap(I have no idea what she's talking about here). Those are all things I want but I'm scared to allow myself to try and have them because of my past.


see, not dating material by a long shot.lol
 

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VladPatton said:
I say leave it alone, man. Your gut instinct is 105% correct on this one.

You wouldn't put a piece of bubble gum that fell on the barber shop floor back into your mouth because you can't see the hair on it from 5' away now would you?
You're right.haha It just sucks balls that I've seen other guys get it so easily from her. I mean she's pretty hot but d@mn does she have some issues. I mean a guy I went to highschool with that was awkward as fvck and a weirdo in school even got it! I bet it was his first piece of @$$ too. That's the kind of sh!t that I'm like "how in the flying fvck is HE getting it but I can't?"
 

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So she's broken goods, a slag and seems to be kinda dumb. Nice combination!

You've really got a couple of options here.

You could keep ignoring her which guarantees you to get nothing (no headaches, no sex, no diseases)

You could be bold though and write back saying "I don't know what your problem is, I wasn't looking for commitment, just a bit of fun. Give me a call if you want to have some fun."
If she does call and ask what you mean by fun, be real upfront about it and just tell her you wanted her naked. Don't try to act like a friend in any way, don't buy her drinks, carry shyt, or offer to pick up her kid from school.
 

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^^ Ya do what Cremasta suggests.

see where it goes.
 

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What cremasta says. Tell her to show up at your place with a bottle of wine, a movie and wearing no panties or some ****. Then just go caveman on her.

I'd say why not. As long as you're not dating her, might as well get a lay. She'd probably be great in the sack cause shes cufckin crazyyy.

Only thing to watch out is if you pump and dump, she might sabotage you and make you look bad to all your best friend's gf's friends
 

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Hell no.^^^^

Show some self respect and some value.

She is a pumped and dumped slore. Don't waste your health and time playing VD roulette with it.
NEXT.
 
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