girl chatted me up, i got her number

[mastervampire]

today i had my first shift at my new job at working nightfill for a supermarket. Its kinda crappy, just cutting boxes and stacking shelves but the pay is good

anyway, around 2:30 i finish and im tired as, i walk out, untuck the shirt and there is this car parked next to me with these 2 chicks in it. Im thinking cool and walk by ( im kinda shy and dont really try to pick up)

anyway i get to my car and the chick asks me if she can chat me up
and im thinkg woah hell yeah! so we talk and she gives me a smoke and they get out the car and we talk and smoke for about 10min, they were gonna goto some lookout but i was tired as and didnt know where they were talkinga bout and im not the best with directions lol

so we finish up and she goes well it was nice talking to ya, and im thinking ' i want a number, ask ask! dont be aftraid, do it, it would be ur first time asking )

so i say "yeah it was nice meeting u, give me ya number and we will meet again" and shes like ok cool and gives me it and when we part shes like "see ya later karl baby!"

man it feels so good, like confidence boost x100, even more cause they came onto me!!

so yeah, but i was wondering when i should call her? maybe friday? ask her if she remembers me and if we wanan go out somewhere? maybe that same lookour or soemthing? cause im new at this

thx

 

[Jukeboxhero]

That's friggin awesome dude!
I know exactly how ya feel, it really does boost your confidence when random girls come up and start chatting you up!
(Did she really ask "Can I chat you up?" ? that's kinda stange though)

Regardless it's probably a good sign. I think calling her Thursday or Friday would be good. But don't ask her if she wants to do something..tell her your going to do something that your already planning on doing (whether she does or not) and ask her if she wants to go along.

Also, try to think of something action/activity oriented instead of the typical dinner date.

 

[GodsGiftToFatBirds]

Hey, I don't mean to be negative but personally I'd be kind of wary of the kind of chick whos hanging around a deserted car park at half 2 in the morning (you are talking about half 2 in the morning, yeh?) and gets out her car as you pass and goes 'Can i chat you up?'
Not saying you shouldn't call her or anything but don't go too far out your way for her, she sounds like a tease.
Good luck though!

 

[mastervampire]

yeah, i think they just stopped to buy smokes though thats why

 

[Tkay]

hey sorry dude, I don't wanna bring you down or something,
but it really sounds like they were just making fun of you. Girls don't come up to you, especially not when you're a shy person by nature, to ask "can I chat you up"

But I'm sure you countered it with some interesting stuff to say, and it made them think "ow we were wrong about this guy he's kinda cool".
Don't freak out if its a fake # though, they do that all the time.

 

[mastervampire]

nah they wernt playing me or anything , i could tell
the main chick who i got the number we had a real thing going, im good at convos and makin people laugh

i might see about doing something on sat night

 

[bman]

dont ask if she remembers you, says something like "its me ____ from ___ the other night"

also dont ask her out, tell her you're taking her out.

"im going to ____ tomorrow night, you should come with me its going to be fun"