"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you get a girl to chase you, instead of you chasing a girl. i'm pretty good at getting girls to like me at first, but when it comes to her chasing me I don't really know what i'm doing wrong but they aren't chasing. I've got this one girl in mind, we're in class together at the university, we talk all the time during class, give each other a few laughs, i touch her playfully, she touches me a few times. I like her and all and she seems to be digging me and she sees me as a player just cuz i've got a bunch of friends that are girls and always hit on me so im making her jealous and all.
I've got her phone number, we text sometimes, like a few times a week, i want her to start calling me. I see some ppl i know that always have girls calling them, how do i get her to do that to me. Should i call her up first or what.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tie a dollar bill to a string and place it on your belt
 
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NumberOneStunna said:
how do you get a girl to chase you, instead of you chasing a girl. i'm pretty good at getting girls to like me at first, but when it comes to her chasing me I don't really know what i'm doing wrong but they aren't chasing. I've got this one girl in mind, we're in class together at the university, we talk all the time during class, give each other a few laughs, i touch her playfully, she touches me a few times. I like her and all and she seems to be digging me and she sees me as a player just cuz i've got a bunch of friends that are girls and always hit on me so im making her jealous and all.
I've got her phone number, we text sometimes, like a few times a week, i want her to start calling me. I see some ppl i know that always have girls calling them, how do i get her to do that to me. Should i call her up first or what.
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Steal her purse, and then run!

either that, or walk up to her, and say "Tag! You're it!" Then run.

Actually, most women don't call guys that often. I have yet to figure out if it's a genetic thing, or if it's a learned thing. :whistle:

If she is cool enough to call, then she's at least somewhat interested. If she starts conversations with you (again, it can be rare)... you're ok.

Now if you want to make it a little harder for her, you've got to let her catch up to you more, then start again.

Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
 
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