"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl Chasing You?

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how do you get a girl to chase you, instead of you chasing a girl. i'm pretty good at getting girls to like me at first, but when it comes to her chasing me I don't really know what i'm doing wrong but they aren't chasing. I've got this one girl in mind, we're in class together at the university, we talk all the time during class, give each other a few laughs, i touch her playfully, she touches me a few times. I like her and all and she seems to be digging me and she sees me as a player just cuz i've got a bunch of friends that are girls and always hit on me so im making her jealous and all.
I've got her phone number, we text sometimes, like a few times a week, i want her to start calling me. I see some ppl i know that always have girls calling them, how do i get her to do that to me. Should i call her up first or what.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tie a dollar bill to a string and place it on your belt
 
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NumberOneStunna said:
how do you get a girl to chase you, instead of you chasing a girl. i'm pretty good at getting girls to like me at first, but when it comes to her chasing me I don't really know what i'm doing wrong but they aren't chasing. I've got this one girl in mind, we're in class together at the university, we talk all the time during class, give each other a few laughs, i touch her playfully, she touches me a few times. I like her and all and she seems to be digging me and she sees me as a player just cuz i've got a bunch of friends that are girls and always hit on me so im making her jealous and all.
I've got her phone number, we text sometimes, like a few times a week, i want her to start calling me. I see some ppl i know that always have girls calling them, how do i get her to do that to me. Should i call her up first or what.
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Steal her purse, and then run!

either that, or walk up to her, and say "Tag! You're it!" Then run.

Actually, most women don't call guys that often. I have yet to figure out if it's a genetic thing, or if it's a learned thing. :whistle:

If she is cool enough to call, then she's at least somewhat interested. If she starts conversations with you (again, it can be rare)... you're ok.

Now if you want to make it a little harder for her, you've got to let her catch up to you more, then start again.

Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
 
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