Girl called me ugly to a friend.. but acts differently towards me.

[The_Crack]

Hey guys,
This chick, a hb9 at least (quite young though) said i was ugly to my mate. My mate is a 6'3 shredded, extremely handsome guy but has no care for her. He was asking what she thought of me and said i was kinda ugly and was only a friend.
He told me this and fair enough i thought, not all girls are going to be into me.
But when i talk to her, she is totally into me and is always initiating meetings and what not.
I was going to see her the other day but she didn't respond to my texts and i saw on her fb that she was with someone else. I honestly didn't care, so i hung out with some bro's instead. And went to a party instead that night.
When i was there, she texts me saying how she is horny and just wants sex sex sex. She is just stating it, didn't say she wanted me to **** her. I played it off.

Today she wanted to see me real bad again, and i really wasn't in the mood so i made up some bull**** about being with a friend and she got angry.

IN all honesty, i couldn't give a **** if she works out or not. But she is smoking hot and i would not mind hitting that.. she tells my boy that she thinks im ugly and only friends, but acts differently with me. I don't know what to think haha
I'm pretty sure her calling me ugly has kinda rattled my confidence with her.. cause girls usually find me good looking.

Any thoughts here guys? Some help?
I can provide more info if wanted.

Thanks

 

[Pair A Dice]

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When i was there, she texts me saying how she is horny and just wants sex sex sex. She is just stating it, didn't say she wanted me to **** her. I played it off.

Today she wanted to see me real bad again, and i really wasn't in the mood so i made up some bull**** about being with a friend and she got angry.

IN all honesty, i couldn't give a **** if she works out or not. But she is smoking hot and i would not mind hitting that.. she tells my boy that she thinks im ugly and only friends, but acts differently with me. I don't know what to think haha

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You want to fvck her, yet you don't jump at an obvious opportunity?

And you say you don't give a fvck if she works out or not, but you're caring enough to post about it? You care about it!

Next time, if there is a next time, that she texts you about all she wants is sex, sex, sex, play it forward.

 

[The_Crack]

I think i don't care for the fact that i may lose her, but rather care enough so that i can get some? Does that make sense?

Play it forward you think? Wouldn't that come off as way to needy..?
I said i'd come over later and we could go for a drive but she said no.

 

[Pair A Dice]

I think i don't care for the fact that i may lose her, but rather care enough so that i can get some? Does that make sense?

Play it forward you think? Wouldn't that come off as way to needy..?
I said i'd come over later and we could go for a drive but she said no.

Notice the word you used...you 'CARE.' If you want it enough, you'll make it happen. You're a man.

Yes, play it forward. If she texts you talking about sex, sex, sex, continue the subject, get her into fantasizing about fvcking you, pull some strings and be done with it.

 

[The_Crack]

Notice the word you used...you 'CARE.' If you want it enough, you'll make it happen. You're a man.

Yes, play it forward. If she texts you talking about sex, sex, sex, continue the subject, get her into fantasizing about fvcking you, pull some strings and be done with it.

Yeah, you're right. I've found the most success in the past by just being straight up sexual.. i'm getting to soft these days :/

How do you think i should proceed from here? She lives in another town, so alot of our convos are online or through text.

 

[Pair A Dice]

Yeah, you're right. I've found the most success in the past by just being straight up sexual.. i'm getting to soft these days :/

How do you think i should proceed from here? She lives in another town, so alot of our convos are online or through text.

Wait for her to text you about sex, sex, sex, again, then pounce. Either make her agree to come to you or just get it done THAT night.

 

[jafyk]

Hmmm, you sound cvntfused. Well, she may have said you were ugly to your friend because (1) maybe you are. Still you may be doing other things that make her attracted to you, which is what really matters (2) Maybe she's talking you down because she wants to get in with your friend. It could also be because you've turned her down a couple of times. If you had 2 hot girls who may be friends and you hadn't F closed one of them. Partly because one isn't giving you the chance to wouldn't you try to get in with the other one if you could? Perhaps this is what is going on here.
And Oh....yes, you do care.

 

[The_Crack]

Yeah jafyk, i was thinking it was (2).. definitely not (1).. my boy is probably a 9/10 on a nohomo scale, so she probably was trying to play me down so she seemed more interested in him.
I might initiate it a little more now, and try and seal the deal.

Thanks guys. see how it goes

 

[Single4Life]

Who cares if she says you look like a cave troll...

if she's obviously giving you hints she wants you to fk her brains out, then go fk her brains out.

Doesn't matter what she says about you. You just don't marry this one.

 

[Mike32ct]

She is either secretly into you or a c@cktease. You need to make a move to find out.