I never mentioned the word date to her, and I fear I am looking into this too much. Anyway I knew she was meeting her friend earlier in the day and I was slightly annoyed though when she asked if her friend could "come because she's really bored". I kind of said no at first but then changed my mind. Anyway it all went fine and it was actually quite fun, no one was a third wheel e.t.c. Then he friend left and it was just me and her alone for an hour or 2, I'm kind of confused because It feels like im being friendzoned while at the same time it feels like (bodylanguage wise) she is into me its contradictory behaviour and well...girls are damned confusing. But at the same time she laughs at all my jokes plays with her hair touches / licks her lips a lot. fyi this is our '2nd' date but we couldn't see eachother for a while (3 months) due to life problems from both of us.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl brings friend on date.
- Thread starter Snight
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
BPH
Master Don Juan
It sounds like all of your "problems" can be solved by kissing this girl...
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Yeah this one is on you. When I first read the title I was like "Damn, maybe this girl doesnt like you." but when she gives you an hour or two alone together... Man step up your game.
NorwegianDJ
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Imagine how confusing you are, giving all these mixed signals to her in return for her mixed signals. **** doesn't work when both parties are reactive.