I never mentioned the word date to her, and I fear I am looking into this too much. Anyway I knew she was meeting her friend earlier in the day and I was slightly annoyed though when she asked if her friend could "come because she's really bored". I kind of said no at first but then changed my mind. Anyway it all went fine and it was actually quite fun, no one was a third wheel e.t.c. Then he friend left and it was just me and her alone for an hour or 2, I'm kind of confused because It feels like im being friendzoned while at the same time it feels like (bodylanguage wise) she is into me its contradictory behaviour and well...girls are damned confusing. But at the same time she laughs at all my jokes plays with her hair touches / licks her lips a lot. fyi this is our '2nd' date but we couldn't see eachother for a while (3 months) due to life problems from both of us.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl brings friend on date.
- Thread starter Snight
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BPH
Master Don Juan
It sounds like all of your "problems" can be solved by kissing this girl...
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Yeah this one is on you. When I first read the title I was like "Damn, maybe this girl doesnt like you." but when she gives you an hour or two alone together... Man step up your game.
NorwegianDJ
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Imagine how confusing you are, giving all these mixed signals to her in return for her mixed signals. **** doesn't work when both parties are reactive.