I never mentioned the word date to her, and I fear I am looking into this too much. Anyway I knew she was meeting her friend earlier in the day and I was slightly annoyed though when she asked if her friend could "come because she's really bored". I kind of said no at first but then changed my mind. Anyway it all went fine and it was actually quite fun, no one was a third wheel e.t.c. Then he friend left and it was just me and her alone for an hour or 2, I'm kind of confused because It feels like im being friendzoned while at the same time it feels like (bodylanguage wise) she is into me its contradictory behaviour and well...girls are damned confusing. But at the same time she laughs at all my jokes plays with her hair touches / licks her lips a lot. fyi this is our '2nd' date but we couldn't see eachother for a while (3 months) due to life problems from both of us.
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Girl brings friend on date.
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- Start date
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Iceberg
Master Don Juan
If you went for a kiss, this would have been much less confusing, no?
That way, you're getting a real response to "does she want me" instead of reading body language and all that crap.
That way, you're getting a real response to "does she want me" instead of reading body language and all that crap.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't worry too much about her bringing the friend. Chicks are fvcked in the head and she was just scared to meet you alone.
The fact the friend left you two alone is a great signal.
Schedule a second date ASAP. But insist no chaperones this time!
The fact the friend left you two alone is a great signal.
Schedule a second date ASAP. But insist no chaperones this time!