"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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milrenkb

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I usually just say something like: "Man, I've only known you for 5 minutes and your already telling me all your problems. This relationship is over." (This isn't a good idea if the BF is around). Then I'll follow with "well it was nice meeting you."

Look if they tell you they have a BF then its over. Just part of the game. If a girl is intrested in you then she will avoid talking about any BF she may have at all cost. Don't take it personally. Just examine and then recalibrate your approach.

Best of luck.
 

WC2

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If she doesn't tell you she has a BF, then she may have interest in you. On the other hand, look at what kind of girl your dealing with. Even if you do hit it off with her, she's always going to be actively looking for someone better. Of course all women are like this, but she might be a little bit more ACTIVE if you know what I mean.
 
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