"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl Being Weird?

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This girl likes me, shes told me says that once she goes to University that she wants me to be her boyfriend. She has strict parents so right now dating her is when I can see her which is like once or twice a month. They dont like her seeing boys. Im not sure if this girl wants a LTR but she always hints towards it, shes a virgin as well. But today i went out on a date with her and pulled the usual ****y/Funny even rude ultimate badboy routine. well when it came too us getting phsycal this girl is pretty clingy she always trys to hold my hand in public and have me as some trophy (thats what I gathered from it). but when it came too me grabbing her ass shed say people will think im a hoe ( i still did it, routinely constantly reguardless of what she said) and i grabbed her tits and kissed her but when i tried to kiss her she moved away and was still panting and sighing acting like she didn like it but ikno she did. she told me she dosent like being kissed and i told her if u dont like what i do u can go im a man and this is who i am and she let me do my thing but i still find this confusing she also told me she dosent wanna be a girl htat i just meet once a month to feel up because shes under the impression i **** major girls. anyways thanks dudes i need some advice i know this girl is infatuated with me but come on man i want sum puss!

i know shes horny cause her hand always accidently brushes my **** and **** its like maybe i gotta unlock the potential of her hornyness i uno but wut u guys think i wanna know
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You need alone time (or ie: A date...and an after date).

Obviously the public thing isn't working for you is it?
 

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thats what i was thinking if i could get her alone maybe shed open up
 

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Hitman10000 said:
Sounds like mixed signals which generally mean low interest.

Here's an Askmen article about it:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_300/328_relationship_expert.html

And what do DJ's do with LOW INTEREST WOMEN? ...NEXT
i wouldnt say she has low interest man the girl bought me lunch and whatever i want slapped her in the face punched and everythhing obviously in a joke sense but i get away with alot she likes me dude.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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